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For over a decade Cary Valentine has been assisting couples and singles, throughout the world to transform their lives out of the emotional pain of relationship and dating challenges to creating joyous, juicy, sustaining relationships of their dreams through his\xa0In Love Forever\xa0personal\xa0 development\xa0system.\nCary has a unique ability to understand and empathize with people\u2019s pain and challenges as he was haunted most of his life with tremendous fear, doubt and lack of confidence. He\u2019s transformed his life out of depression and being on the brink of divorce to living a juicy life.\xa0\nHe is certified relationship coach, speaks internationally about living with more passion and success and is the best-selling author of \u201cIn Love Forever: 7 Secrets to a Joyous, Juicy Relationship\u201d, which he co-wrote and lived out with his late wife, Wendy.\nCary\u2019s proven, patent pending,\xa0Turn Your Doubts Inside Out System\xa0\u2013 quickly helps to transform fears, doubts and worries permanently, creating more confidence, success, pleasure and joy.\nCary also narrated the newly released\xa0Complete Works of Florence Scovel Shinn\xa0audio book series and is an award-winning graduate of the Berklee College of Music; having performed with luminaries such as Dizzy Gillespie and members of Paul McCartney, Kenny Chesney,\xa0Stevie Wonder, Chris Botti, REO Speedwagon & Lionel Richie\u2019s bands.\nHe enjoys coming home from world travels to the sight of colorful roaming chickens and the enchanting tropical aromas of the Hawaiian island of Kaua\u2019i.\nGuiding Principle, Quote or Mantra\nTurn the doubts inside out.\xa0 Rearrange the letters in the word doubt and you come up with \u201cto bud.\u201d\xa0 Which is to grow and to blossom.\xa0 So the doubts and insecurities are not what they appear to be.\nThe guiding point is that the doubt is our friend and not our enemy. It\u2019s trying to help us actualize our potential, our gifts, our passion and our desires.\nThe doubt is our inner trainer testing our resolve to see how strong we really believe in what we want to do.\nWhen You Tripped Up\nCary was married to Wendy for 24 years before she passed away.\xa0\nFor the first 13 years it was profoundly nourishing for both of them. Then at the 13 year mark, he had become so disconnected from his heart and he did not feel a connection to her anymore. All the things that used to work, were not working anymore.\nThey were honest enough acknowledge that they had lost their connection and that they really cared about each other and wanted to find out what was going on. \nThey found out they had a collection of fears, doubts and insecurities that were undermining their relationship.\nOnce they learned to accept themselves and finally have the courage to be honest that was when their amazing relationship started.\nProudest moment in partnership \nMany years ago Cary had the opportunity to play drums with his friend, Tony Osanah, who he used to perform with in Brazil.\xa0 And they had not performed or rehearsed or anything in several years.\nAs Cary is walking on the stage he hears in his head \u201cBoy, are you gonna blow it tonight!\u201d This is while he is walking to the drum set.\nBecause of his work turning his doubts inside out, he was able to catch it and turn it around.\xa0\nIn Cary\u2019s head he was telling himself that he was going to create magic with Tony. And the music started that they killed it.\nThis was an opportunity for Cary to fail big time, but because of the tools he had been developing he was able to excel beyond his wildest imagination.\nWhat is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received?\nHave no secrets regardless of how vulnerable it may be to share it.\nBest Partnership Book\n<a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/069227930X/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=069227930X&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&lin...