\xa0I was listening to the Tim Ferriss Show again and found another amazing clip... again. This one is from Episode #638: Seth Godin on The Game of Life, The Value of Hacks, and Overcoming Anxiety (Repost). At the 20:00 minute mark of this conversation, Seth shares a teaching strategy on learning how to juggle. I listened and then listened again. It is profound and yet so simple. How do jugglers learn how to juggle multiple balls? Here's that portion of the conversation in transcript form from Tim's website. \xa0
"Seth Godin: So I\u2019ve taught more people to juggle than most. I\u2019m not a great juggler, but we\u2019re not talking about figuratively. I\u2019m talking about actually juggling. So let\u2019s talk this through, because I think it\u2019s a useful lesson. If you\u2019ve ever seen a juggler on television or on video or in person, what you notice is that they don\u2019t drop the ball. Not dropping the ball is perhaps the driving force of what makes someone a juggler and, if you are enjoying the show, you are willing and wishing the balls not to drop.\xa0
So if someone says, \u201cYou want to learn how to juggle?\u201d you might say \u201cYes.\u201d This is what always happens when I teach people to juggle. They grab three balls. I say, \u201cNo, no.\u201d They grab three balls and they throw the first one. This is easy. They throw the second one, and then they go to catch it because they know catching is the key to juggling. By the time they get to the second ball, they have to lunge for it. Once you lunge for the second ball, you\u2019re out of position for the third one, and then you\u2019re done. It\u2019s all on the ground and you give up on juggling because, if juggling is about catching, you\u2019re terrible at it. What\u2019s the alternative?
Well, the way I\u2019ve taught people how to juggle is simple. I give them one ball and we spend between 20 minutes and 30 minutes throwing the ball and letting it hit the ground, no catching. Then we add the second ball. Throw, throw, drop, drop. No catching. Throw, throw, drop, drop. If you do that for 40 minutes total, you\u2019re going to be really good at throwing. If you get really good at throwing, the catching takes care of itself. This is the part about divorce from the outcome because all we care about, if we want to learn to juggle, is to learn to throw. The metaphor I cannot escape which is, getting better at throwing is what we have to do to build resilience, and it\u2019s what we have to do to live in a world that\u2019s changing ever faster."
"If we try to anchor on outcomes and control results, we\u2019re in the catching business and then we\u2019re really in bad trouble."
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