How To!: Evolve a Friendship

Published: Feb. 20, 2024, 8 a.m.

In part two of our series on friendship, we\u2019re looking at how to revitalize a relationship that began in a previous phase of life.\xa0\n\nMichelle and Blair became fast friends in grad school. That bond survived graduation, marriages, and even a cross-country move. They now live just a short drive from one another\u2014but things have never felt so distant. Michelle wants to know how to evolve their friendship to be more compatible with the present day. On today\u2019s episode, Courtney Martin brings on Rhaina Cohen, author of The Other Significant Others: Reimagining Life with Friendship at the Center. Rhaina will help Michelle\u2014and all of us\u2014prepare for a daunting conversation.\n\nMiss last week\u2019s episode? Learn how to expand your horizons with new, cross-generational friendships. If you\u2019re enjoying this series, check out our other friendship episodes:\n\nHow To Find Your People\nHow To Make Friends as an Adult\nHow To Make Friends\u2026 Like a Man\nHow To Talk to Strangers\nHow To Show Up For a Friend With Cancer\n\nDo you have a problem that needs solving? Send us a note at howto@slate.com or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001 and we might have you on the show. Subscribe for free on Apple, Spotify or wherever you listen.\n\nHow To\u2019s executive producer is Derek John. Joel Meyer is our senior editor/producer. The show is produced by Rosemary Belson and Kevin Bendis.\xa0\n\nSlate Plus members get bonus segments and ad-free podcast feeds. Sign up now at slate.com/howtoplus.\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices