In this episode, Cheyna Roth (podcast producer for Slate\u2019s The Waves) joins Prudie (Jen\xe9e Desmond-Harris) to answer your letters about weddings: whether parents are obligated to pay for weddings they don\u2019t support, whether a mean sister should get to attend an elopement, and whether you are really invited if you don\u2019t have a paper invitation in hand.\nIf you want more Dear Prudence, you should join Slate Plus, Slate\u2019s membership program. Jen\xe9e answers an extra question every week, just for members. Go to Slate.com/prudieplus to sign up. It\u2019s just $15 for your first three months.\xa0\nPodcast production by Se\u2019era Spragley Ricks and Daisy Rosario, with help from Brandon Nix.\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices