In this episode, Carvell Wallace (author of Another Word for Love and host of Slate\u2019s How To!) joins Prudie (Jen\xe9e Desmond-Harris) to answer letters from readers about how to cancel on family vacation plans that sound horrible to you, how to break it to your butch lesbian girlfriend that her friends might be misogynists, and how to convince your parents to let you go to a high school in a not so great neighborhood.\xa0\nWant more Dear Prudence? Subscribe to Slate Plus to immediately unlock weekly bonus episodes. Plus, you\u2019ll access ad-free listening across all your favorite Slate podcasts. Subscribe now on Apple Podcasts by clicking \u201cTry Free\u201d at the top of our show page. Or, visit slate.com/prudie-plus to get access wherever you listen.\nThis podcast is produced by Se\u2019era Spragley Ricks, Daisy Rosario, and Jen\xe9e Desmond-Harris, with help from Maura Currie and Anuli Ononye.\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices