In this episode, Jenna Wortham (Black Futures and Still Processing) joins Prudie (Jen\xe9e Desmond-Harris) to answer letters from readers about how to get over a crush, what to do about a fianc\xe9\u2019s sneaky candy bar habit, and how to cope when your best friend\u2019s secret social media reveals that she\u2019s an unapologetic bigot who hates pretty much everyone.\nIf you want more Dear Prudence, join Slate Plus, Slate\u2019s membership program. Jen\xe9e answers an extra question every week, just for members.\xa0\nGo to Slate.com/prudieplus to sign up. It\u2019s just $15 for your first three months.\xa0\nThis podcast is produced by Se\u2019era Spragley Ricks, Daisy Rosario, and Jen\xe9e Desmond-Harris, with help from Maura Currie.\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices