In this episode, Jessica Valenti (a feminist columnist and author) joins Prudie (Jen\xe9e Desmond-Harris) to answer readers\u2019 letters about whether it\u2019s okay to ghost friends who don\u2019t respect your reproductive choices, how to deal with a spouse who is a slob, and when to tell your kids you\u2019ve had an abortion.\xa0\nIf you want more Dear Prudence, join Slate Plus, Slate\u2019s membership program. Jen\xe9e answers an extra question every week, just for members. This week she answers a question about what to do when a grandparent food-polices a toddler.\xa0\nGo to Slate.com/prudieplus to sign up. It\u2019s just $15 for your first three months.\xa0\nPodcast production by Se\u2019era Spragley Ricks and Daisy Rosario, with help from Maura Currie.\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices