In this episode, Michael Hobbes (If Books Could Kill\xa0and\xa0Maintenance Phase) joins Prudie (Jen\xe9e Desmond-Harris) to answer letters from readers about how to tell a friend they\u2019re a horrible boss, whether a husband who won\u2019t open the bathroom shades to give the plants light is a problem, and what to do when your friends setting you up on dates makes you think you might be a bigot.\nIf you want more Dear Prudence, join Slate Plus, Slate\u2019s membership program. Jen\xe9e answers an extra question every week, just for members.\nGo to\xa0Slate.com/prudieplus\xa0to sign up. It\u2019s just $15 for your first three months.\nThis podcast is produced by Se\u2019era Spragley Ricks, Daisy Rosario, and Jen\xe9e Desmond-Harris, with help from Maura Currie.\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices