In this episode, Jamelle Bouie (New York Times opinion columnist) joins Prudie (Jen\xe9e Desmond-Harris) to answer letters from readers about how to turn down gifts that make you cringe, what to do when you discover a sibling was given up for adoption before you were born, and when it\u2019s too late to chase your dreams\nIf you want more Dear Prudence, join Slate Plus, Slate\u2019s membership program. Jen\xe9e answers an extra question every week, just for members.\nGo to\xa0Slate.com/prudieplus\xa0to sign up. It\u2019s just $15 for your first three months.\nThis podcast is produced by Se\u2019era Spragley Ricks, Daisy Rosario, and Jen\xe9e Desmond-Harris, with help from Maura Currie.\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices