On this episode: Lucy, Zak, and Elizabeth answer a tricky question from a listener who\u2019s struggling to feel love for her daughter. Mismatched neurodivergence might be to blame\u2026 but what is a parent to do when they don\u2019t feel connected with their kids? How can they work on translating irritation into love \u2014 and grappling with the guilt of not feeling like a good parent?\xa0\n\nWe also check in on what\u2019s happening in the hosts\u2019 lives right now... And then, on the Slate Plus Playground, we\u2019re venting (really, complaining) about the slog that is back-to-school shopping.\n\nIf you\u2019re not part of the Slate Plus community, we hope you\u2019ll consider joining! Keep reading to learn how.\n\nLucy\u2019s check-in: Not a Sephora kid, just need some stuff\nElizabeth\u2019s check-in: Safaris are just watching everything eat 24/7\nZak\u2019s check-in: \u201cYou\u2019re gonna have a bike accident\u201d\n\nJoin us on Facebook and email us at careandfeedingpod@slate.com to ask us new questions, tell us what you thought of today\u2019s show, and give us ideas about what we should talk about in future episodes. You can also call our phone line: (646) 357-9318.\n\nIf you enjoy this show, please consider signing up for Slate Plus. Slate Plus members get to hang out with us on the Plus Playground every week for a whole additional grab-bag of content \u2014 and you\u2019ll get an ad-free experience across the network. And you\u2019ll also be supporting the work we do here on Care and Feeding. Sign up now at slate.com/careplus \u2013 or try it out on Apple Podcasts.\n\nPodcast produced by Maura Currie.\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices