Ever since I read Michelle Obama\u2019s book two years ago, I have been obsessed with this notion of becoming.\xa0\nWe are always becoming.\xa0There is no way around it.\xa0\nSometimes we are becoming more the person we know we want to be.\xa0Other times not so much.\xa0\nSometimes we are becoming a person we did not want to be.\xa0Maybe even a person we feared we would be one day.\xa0\nWhat we must remind ourselves everyday is that WE GET TO CHOOSE.\xa0\nYou have many times each day where you make choices that take you closer to or further from the person you want to become.\xa0This is comforting because at any time you can course correct.\xa0\nMake a crappy decision at 10 am?\xa0No worries.\xa0You can make a better one at 10:02.\xa0\nWhile that sounds super simple and maybe even annoyingly idealistic, it\u2019s true.\xa0\nWhat matters most is your trend of becoming over time.\xa0\nSo, what is your trend?\xa0And is it heading in the direction you want it to?\nI have a task for you.\xa0As you listen to this episode, you will gain clarity on who you want to become and HOW to become her.\xa0Listen in and do the task.\xa0Then let me know, how are you becoming?\nLinks mentioned:\n\nLast day to register for the Shameless Mom Con Collective\n\n\nSMA Episode 325: Michelle Obama\u2019s 4 Secrets to a Successful Marriage\n\n\nBook: Hood Feminism by Mikki Kendall\n\n\xa0\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices