Dana Pake is a Seattle-based Shameless Mom to two daughters, Ellie (10) and Holland (7). A recovering people pleaser and perfectionist, she's a work-in-progress learning to savor the present and the impermanence of life with light-hearted flexibility. She's a lot like you. Working every day to be the best version of herself while simultaneously breaking the mold of her roles as wife, mom, daughter, sister, and employee.\nEveryone has a story. Hers is punctuated by turning hardships into gifts. From her parent's divorce, living on her own since she was a senior in high school, weathering her father's suicide at age 19, outrunning Hurricane Maria and helping her husband through a difficult health episode, Dana has learned to metabolize hardship for inward and upward growth.\nWhen she's not spending her days creating in real-life moments and human interactions that matter at events as an experience designer, you can find her planning her next trip to parts unknown (whether that's exploring new corners of the world with her family or discovering new versions of herself).\nListen in to hear Dana share:\n\nThe impact of her parents divorce and how she became a parental figure to her sister at age 8\n\nThe impact of losing her father to suicide at age 19\n\nHow she and her family narrowly escaped Hurricane Maria in Puerto Rico and set off on a year-long nomadic adventure with her husband and two young daughters\n\nHow she\u2019s used work to hide, escape, and avoid pain, grief and growth - and how it\u2019s caught up with her\n\nHer family motto: embrace the detours\n\nThe power of the victim vs player mentality\n\nHow owning her resilience informs her personal and professional decisions today\n\nLinks Mentioned:\n\n2020 Plan & Prep Pajama Party\n\nFind Dana onTwitter\n\nFind Dana on LinkedIN\n\nThank you to our sponsors:\n\n\nTalkspace: To match with your perfect therapist for a fraction of the price of traditional therapy, go to talkspace.com, Make sure to use the code SHAMELESS to get $100 off your first month and show your support for the show.\n\n\nBest Fiends: Download FREE on the Apple App Store or Google Play.\n\n\xa0\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices