354: Laura Cathcart Robbins: I Was The Only Black Woman In The Room

Published: July 17, 2019, 7 a.m.

Laura Cathcart Robbins is a Shameless Mom, a writer, and a recovery thriver and survivor. In September 2018 she found herself in an all too familiar situation.\xa0She was the only one in the room.\xa0She was the only black woman in the room at Brave Magic, a famed writer\u2019s retreat. After it was over, she wrote about her \u2018only one\u2019 experience in The Huffington Post and comments started flooding into her DM from people from all races, ethnicities, creeds, and nationalities who had felt \u2018othered.\u2019\nLaura now hosts the podcast, The Only One In The Room, where she interviews a person about their \u2018only one\u2019 story each episode.\xa0On her show, you\u2019ll hear raw, vulnerable, accounts from people who are like most of us.\xa0Laura\u2019s hope is that The Only One In The Room will inspire a change of perspective in how we all see and hear each other\u2019s stories. She hopes to make you think twice before judging the person standing next to you at a party, in the pick-up line at school or in a crowded subway car. Laura\u2019s show and her work is for anyone who has ever felt alone in a room full of people \u2013 which is to say, her show and her work are for everyone.\nListen in to hear Laura share:\n\nWhat it\u2019s like to be the only black person in the room in 2018\n\nThe difference between visible only-ness vs invisible only-ness - like addiction, divorce, infertility, having a child with special needs\n\nWhat it feels like to be the only one in the room and how we\u2019ve all been the only one in the room at some point\n\nThe isolation of onlyness - and the antidote\n\nHow to create opportunities and cultivate your biggest gifts from your onlyness\n\nLinks Mentioned:\n\nThe Only One In The Room Podcast\n\n Laura\u2019s article in the Huffington Post\n\nLaura on Instagram\n\nLaura on Facebook\n\nThank you to our sponsors:\n\nGet access to MOMENTUM Mamas and Shameless Mom Con 2020 during our wild & crazy Christmas in July event (starting July 20!) Get on our newsletter email list for full details:\xa0News Letter\n\n\n\nNative: For 20% off your first purchase, visit Native and use promo code shameless at checkout.\n\n\nStamps: Right now, my listeners get a special offer that includes a 4-week trial PLUS free postage AND a digital scale without any long-term commitment. Just go to Stamps, click on the Microphone at the TOP of the homepage and type in SHAMELESS.\n\n\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices