I recently polled our Shameless Mom #everydamnday Facebook group, asking what you all needed help with right now.\xa0I got over a tons of responses and many of those responses had a lot of likes \u2013 letting me know that a lot of you are facing the same obstacles.\xa0But the most liked response was, \u201cHow to protect energy and boundaries so you still have joy during the holidays.\u201d\xa0\nThis response was the most liked comment by a landslide.\nHere\u2019s the deal about the holidays \u2013 you have every right to create the experience you want.\xa0\nYou have every right to say NO.\xa0\nYou have every right to create space to rest.\xa0\nYou have every right to create more joy and less stress.\nYou have every right to make it all about you and your immediate family and not about a million other people.\xa0\nYou have every right to unapologetically set boundaries, protect your energy, and enjoy the heck out of yourself.\nHere are 4 ways to protect your energy and build better boundaries so your next month can be more of a fairy tale and less of a nightmare.\xa0I\u2019m going to dive into how to make space for the things and people you love, how to prioritize things that bring you joy, and how to actually RELAX over the holidays.\xa0Sound good?!?\nLinks Mentioned:\nJoin MOMENTUM Mamas (enrollment closes at 5 pm on November 26th!): Shameless Mom\n\nThank you to our sponsors:\n\nRothy\u2019s: To get free shipping on any order of Rothy\u2019s shoes, as well as free returns, go to Rothy\u2019s and use the code SHAMELESS at checkout.\n\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices