I am an amazing stalker and I totally own that! I\u2019m not a creeper, because there is a difference! I try to use my stalking powers for good and that\u2019s what we are talking about today. My stalking comes out of my desire to connect with certain people and figuring out how to create those connection opportunities! This is going to be fun, so join us!\n\n\xa0\n\nThere are lots of really great reasons to engage your stalking skills:\n\n\xa0\n\n\nTo get to know people to expand my inner circle\n\nTo make your inner circle more powerful\n\nTo take a leap that will get you to the next level\n\nTo hang out with people that are more successful than you\n\nYou want to change and shift your inner circle\n\nYou get to make authentic connections with people out of your \u201cleague\u201d\n\n\n\xa0\n\n\xa0\n\nI had the desire to do this at one point in my life when I joined a mastermind. I went to my first meeting without a website or any sort of online business. Even though it was scary, I was surrounded by people that were very successful in online business. This helped me more than anything I could have done alone in my business.\n\nAsk yourself:\xa0 What can I learn about them so that I can start learning from them?\n\n\xa0\n\nHow do you start stalking?\n\nLead with a compliment.\n\nFind common ground upon which to build a relationship.\n\nIf you have nothing else to offer to them, be their supporter, their cheerleader.\n\nMake sure they know you are deliberate in wanting to have a relationship.\n\n\xa0\n\nI was able to use these tips to connect with someone this past week that I look up to! I was able to make contact with Lewis Howes at an event.. I was very intentional about trying to connect with him, and I happened to connect 3 different times, so hopefully this will lead to more connections at some of his events in the future. At the same event, I was able to meet several other people that I admire, and I will be having them on the podcast. Even though they were out of my league, I still put myself out there and made the connection.\n\nOne of them was Jill Coleman - My guru for having a healthy relationship with food - check her out at www.jillcoleman.com\n\nThis isn\u2019t super comfortable for me, but I approached my stalking at this event with no shame in my game, and it paid off! Don\u2019t be afraid to be a stalker!\n\nDon't forget to check us out at www.shamelessmom.com.\n\n\xa0\n\n\xa0\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices