The Dark Side Of Success

Published: April 24, 2018, midnight

  • Success comes with surprises \u2014 the ones we don\u2019t like, we call problems.
  • Doesn\u2019t the Bible say to be content with what you have?
  • A tip on how to say \u201cNo\u201d to someone who won\u2019t take \u201cno\u201d for an answer.

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Tip of the Week

How to say \u201cNo\u201d to someone who won\u2019t take \u201cNo\u201d for an answer

Don\u2019t give them an opening. Don\u2019t allow a loophole.

Email templates for saying \u201cNo\u201d

#1 The Definitive NO

Name,

Thanks so much for your interest in having me (WHATEVER THEY ARE ASKING),

Unfortunately, due to my existing commitments, my answer is \u201cNo.\u201d

Just to prevent any confusion, this answer is \u201cNo,\u201d and is not \u201cmaybe later\u201d or \u201ccheck back.\u201d

There is no need to check back. The answer will not change.

Thank you again for asking.

Best of luck in finding (WHATEVER THEY ARE ASKING).

Ray Edwards

# 2 The Next Level NO

Name,

I apologize for not being clear.

The answer is \u201cNo,\u201d and the answer will not change.

Anything else you feel you MUST communicate should be directed to my attorney:

ATTORNEY\u2019S CONTACT INFO.

This email marks the end of our communication.

I will not respond to any future emails or other contact, nor will my team.

Not only will we not respond, your messages will be blocked; we will not read them.

I\u2019m sorry the situation came to this. I wish you well.

Ray Edwards

Spiritual Foundations

Doesn\u2019t the Bible say to be content with what you have?

We\u2019re Christian Mythbusters.

Philippians 4:11-13 NLT (New Living Translation)

The Apostle Paul explained, \u201cNot that I was ever in need, for I have learned how to be content with whatever I have. I know how to live on almost nothing or with everything. I have learned the secret of living in every situation, whether it is with a full stomach or empty, with plenty or little. For I can do everything through Christ who gives me strength.\u201d

You can be content while building wealth, Paul is not saying, \u201cDon\u2019t aspire to having goals or to do things.\u201d He\u2019s saying don\u2019t let your circumstances dictate your mindset.

Feature Presentation \u201cThe Dark Side of Success\u201c

The Dark Side of Success: 5 Challenges We Didn\u2019t Expect

  1. Your success changes relationships.
  2. Success is a magnifying lens for your personality.
  3. You can become obsessed, which is not healthy.
  4. You can find your identity wrapped up in your success.
  5. Higher revenues can equal lower pay.
  • Why it\u2019s harder to make $100,000 than $1 million dollars \u2014 How to be courageous and prepare for those in your life who will say, \u201cYou owe it to me.\u201d 11:00
  • Unwinding the concept of no regrets in Heaven \u2014 Why will our tears need to be wiped away? What tears? Why tears? 12:45
  • If you\u2019re unhappy when you\u2019re poor, will you be unhappy when you are rich? \u2014 How the volume of who you are is magnified by success and money. 15:18
  • Obsession \u2014 Why it\u2019s crucial to distinguish whether you\u2019re pursuing or preoccupied with success. 17:00
  • Uncover identity issues based on bank balances and status \u2014 How to discover if you are only living for the approval of others. 18:44
  • Solving a puzzle leads to a higher-level problem \u2014 What you can learn from a good Roman emperor. 21:10
  • Do you find happiness? \u2014 How discovering what you think about obstacles, puzzles, and problems helps you create happiness. 23:01
Resources Mentioned In This Episode
  • Email templates for saying \u201cNo\u201d
  • Philippians 4:11-13 NLT
  • Shake off lies and limitations related to prosperity, construct your own Prosperity Blueprint when you join us at our new conference this summer, check it out at PermissiontoProsper.com.

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