Dysfunctional Childhood Types & How they Impact your Life with Laura K. Connell, Trauma Informed Coach EP482

Published: Jan. 23, 2023, 11 a.m.

Hard truth\u2026I wish I knew sooner.\xa0

Some people don\u2019t love you; they just love the benefits that come with you.\xa0

The fastest way to weed them out is to set boundaries and observe whose behavior changes.\xa0

A funny thing happens when we start to prioritize our needs and please ourselves; some people in our lives will become displeased. As you having weak boundless highly benefited them.\xa0

At one point in my life, almost everyone in it was TAKING from me, and I was letting them.\xa0

> Some drained my energy\xa0

> Some drained my bank account\xa0

> Some drained my confidence\xa0

As a recovering codependent and people pleaser, I didn\u2019t know how to all of a sudden set boundaries and new rules without pissing these people off.\xa0

A wise mentor of mine said to me, \u201cto avoid upsetting people, you\u2019re willing to sacrifice your life?\u201d

Well dang, when she put it that way!\xa0

This is exactly why as your coach, I will always give it to you straight, as the tough truths and wisdom are what we need to hear (not always what we want to hear).\xa0

If you state your clear priorities, needs, desires, and limitations make people upset and leave you, they never loved to begin with\u2026they loved what did for them or what they could get from you.\xa0

I brought an expert in dysfunctional dynamics and relationships on the podcast (@LauraKConnell), so you can deeply understand where the need to people please comes from.

Connect with Laura K Connell:

Instagram: @LauraKConnell

Website & Blog: laurakconnell.com

Book (coming in 9/2023): It\u2019s Not Your Fault \xa0[Distributor: Simon and Schuster, Publisher: HCI Books]



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