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\xa0\u201cYou\u2019ve gotta be kidding me!\u201d I YELLED.

2022 I\u2019ve labeled as the Year of the Reckoning. Everyone I know had their boundaries tested, and had to distance or remove at least one toxic person from their lives.\xa0

This happened to me several times this year, leaving me pleading and yelling to God. I was so blown away by people\u2019s unacceptable behavior, and my lack of seeing the red flags.\xa0

Keep in mind I\u2019ve had thousands of hours of therapy, inner child work, energy healing, and trauma recovery\u2026So I wanted to believe I wouldn\u2019t let my boundaries get crossed, or any abuse occur. HA!

I only laugh because somehow I forgot I was a human who has deep core wounds that will be with me for life.\xa0 Making it easy to miss the more subtle toxic behaviors, micro-aggressions, and boundary breakers.\xa0

Before I knew it, I was accepting unacceptable behavior in my life and in my business. Here\u2019s how it showed up:

• Telling myself I need to extend more patience, love, and tolerance to someone who\u2019s struggling.
• Avoiding bringing up someone\u2019s unhealthy behavior, because I was \u201ctoo tired\u201d to deal with more heavy stuff right now.
• Convincing myself that I was \u201ctoo much,\u201d \u201ctoo needy,\u201d too sensitive, \u201c and my expectations of friends/employees/people were \u201ctoo high.\u201d

It is easy to beat ourselves up for what we can easily see in hindsight. When we are standing in the frame, it\u2019s impossible to see the entire picture.\xa0

All we can do is make a loving commitment to honor ourselves, and no longer tolerate behaviors, words, actions, or situations that don\u2019t feel good or safe to us.\xa0

I\u2019ve brought on a relationship expert (as clearly, I am not one) to help us improve setting boundaries with the people we love and the ones we don\u2019t.

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