359: WHAT DO WE DO TOGETHER

Published: Jan. 17, 2017, 8:01 a.m.

"You define what is important to you by who you spend your time with." \u2014Anonymous When you were dating there was no shortage of things to do or ways that you wanted to spend your time together. No matter where you were or what time of day it was you got\xa0creative. You would pick up on the smallest comments and run with it, turning that comment\xa0into an incredible adventure you would do together. And then... You begin living together, jobs, bills, volunteering and kids take up time you\xa0once had together. Date nights were the\xa0same every time and you both\xa0lost the excitement and anticipation\xa0of a fun time together. It's time for you to stop asking "What do you want to do?" when you are heading out on a date. Your marriage needs connection. As you plan out your dates this year: It\u2019s about spending time together building memories. Learning what the other likes\xa0as interests\xa0change over time. It\u2019s about getting out of your comfort zone. It\u2019s about trying new things. Put yourself in your spouse\u2019s world. Laugh. Overcoming fear. It's time to build\xa0a vibrant marriage instead of tolerating a stale one. In this week's show Tony and Alisa talk\xa0about how to answer that timeless question of what do we do together. EPISODE SPONSOR |\xa0Connect Like You Did When You First Met \u2014 Free Softcover Book Hidden inside this book you\u2019ll discover how to have fun, deep and meaningful conversations so you can connect with you spouse again. Get started on your emotional intimacy\xa0journey with your own softcover copy of Connect Like You Did When You First Met: 101 Proven Questions for Couple\xa0PLUS 4 digital bonuses. Limited quantities available so get yours today. Other Resources: Download The Intimacy Wheel Now Strategic Coaching Session with Alisa Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices