322: ITS TIME TO INITIATE
Knowing how to initiate sex in your marriage can be a\xa0very real challenge. You're not sure what to do or when you do if your spouse even realizes that you're initiating. On the other side of this is a\xa0frustrated who doesn't understand why you can\u2019t or\xa0decide not to\xa0initiate. For them it\u2019s similar to\xa0living in a constant state of rejection. Think about it. If you rarely\xa0initiate then it is always up to your spouse to make a move. If you're not interested, too tired, not in the mood, then they get shot down. They express\xa0desire to you and yet there is no similar\xa0expression of desire in return. NEW FLASH... This is NOT something that only happens to men or only women. Both men and women struggle when it comes to know how to initiate sex. When only one of you is initiating or when neither of you\xa0is initiating sex it\u2019s time to take a look at what is going on between the two of you. If you can\u2019t initiate it\u2019s often because you don\u2019t know how or what you have tried in the past hasn\u2019t worked so you don\u2019t know what to do. Maybe you got the message growing up that \u201cgood girls don\u2019t do that\u201d or \u201cyou shouldn\u2019t be so bold\u201d. Maybe you were told that you should always be pursued. Maybe you\u2019re afraid that you are going to hear no or some other excuse for why you spouse doesn\u2019t want to be with you. Maybe you just don\u2019t know what to do. OR Maybe your spouse doesn\u2019t know when you are initiating... Check out our Top 10 Ways To Initiate Sex With Your Spouse TONIGHT\xa0to get some ideas on how you can begin to initiate. In this week's show Tony and Alisa talk about why now is the time for you to share with your spouse on how you initiate in and outside the bedroom. EPISODE SPONSOR | FreshBooks FreshBooks is a super simple invoicing solution that lets you create and send professional\xa0looking invoices in seconds. It\xa0also makes managing your expenses, staying on top of who owes you what, and\xa0tracking your time the easiest part of your day.\xa0Try FreshBooks\xa0FREE\xa0for 30 days on us. Get your free trial today. Discover the Top 10 Ways To Initiate Sex With Your Spouse TONIGHT Ecotones Sound + Sleep Machine Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices