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SUPPORT ME ON PATREON\n\nWATCH MUSIC is not a GENRE VIDEOS and MORE\n\nPeople are passionate about the music they love. (Most people anyway. We won\u2019t mention the others :) ). When that passion runs so deep that it becomes part of their core identity, it can cause fires. They can get insulted by people who don\u2019t like a favorite artist or style. They can get so obsessed with their music that all other music is ignored or deemed unworthy, and that stance spreads to the other music lovers. They can let that feeling run so rampant that it goes from apathy to disdain to outright hatred.\n\nI\u2019ve felt all of that. I\u2019m a passionate music obsessive. I used to be so protective of my tastes that I\u2019d be afraid to share them, so disdainful of others who disagreed that I could barely discuss music with anyone ever. I\u2019d cling tightly to my opinions and keep them to myself, or share them only within a like-minded echo chamber.\n\nIt\u2019s easy to explain and understand the internal reasons why we can get this way. It\u2019s what we\u2019re exposed to as kids and young adults. It makes us feel what we want to. It reflects ourselves back to ourselves in the light we want to see. It gives us a safe space to hide our vulnerabilities from the perceived dangers of the unknown. And it\u2019s important to note that, somewhere in our being - consciously or not, we choose to embrace these exclusionary attitudes.\n\nWhat often gets overlooked are the external reasons. Social pressure to belong to a certain group or demographic. Industry messages that favor one artist or type of music over another, and target those messages only to certain people. Media sensationalism that shirks factual reporting to focus solely on controversy, even when that controversy is completely made up. Critics and journalists whose bias shines through their words more strongly than any attempt at objective analysis. We\u2019re not always aware of these pressures and influences, but they\u2019re always there, imposing restrictions on the otherwise boundless world of music appreciation.\n\nThink of all the music rivalries. Beatles v. Stones. MJ v. Prince. Nirvana v. Pearl Jam. Mariah v. Whitney. Tupac v. Biggie. Metal v. Punk. Rock v. Disco or Hip Hop. All of these were either completely untrue, or only true because either fans let their passions divide them, or one of those external influencers hyped up differences to stir up press and money. In some cases, like Rock v. Disco, it stemmed not just from the mercenary pursuit of dollars and power, but also from flat out racism. Which shows that even fake rivalries can get ugly, even dangerous.\n\nWe have a choice, one that allows us to hold onto what we believe, and still be open to others\u2019 tastes and beliefs and opinions and experiences. Maybe even open to appreciating something they do, something we never thought we\u2019d understand.\n\nWhen I was a kid, I never understood why people couldn\u2019t like both rock and disco. But I kept it to myself, and that started me down the road of developing that exclusive, divisive mindset. External pressures and internal fear caused me to separate myself from too many people. That adopted, learned-nourished mindset took hold, and prevented me from sharing the joy of the music I love. It compelled me to judge others so harshly that I dismissed both them AND their music, as a defense against the possibility that they might do the same to me.\n\n...\n\n\n--- \n\nThis episode is sponsored by \n\xb7 Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app\n\nSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/musicisnotagenre/support\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices