526: Should I Quit? - Ask Denis
Have you ever wondered whether it's time to give up or keep pushing forward?
In this episode, Denis delves into the often-heard query, "Should I quit?" Denis shares insights from his experience working with global leaders. He explores reasons people consider quitting, such as fear of change, overthinking, self-doubt, the urge to please everyone, and being stuck in the past. He highlights the importance of understanding one's purpose, maintaining a positive mindset, and persisting through challenges. The episode references quotes by Arnold Schwarzenegger and Winston Churchill, emphasizing the value of resilience and continuous effort in the face of failures.
In this episode:
- Denis addresses the question, "Should I quit?" which is commonly heard in his work with leaders
- Denis shares tips on overcoming the urge to quit, including understanding one's purpose, having a positive mindset, and resilience
Main takeaways:
- Understanding the why: Identifying and regularly revisiting one's purpose or goal is crucial for motivation, especially during challenging times
- Dealing with fear and doubt: Overcoming the tendency to overthink and self-doubt is essential
- Mindset and thoughts: One's thoughts significantly influence emotions and actions
- Letting go of the past: Moving on from past failures or negative experiences is necessary to embrace new opportunities and growth
- Avoiding the pleasing trap: Trying to please everyone can be exhausting and unproductive
- Positive self-talk and language: The language used with oneself shapes self-perception and outcomes
- Continuous effort and adaptation: Embracing change, learning from failures, and persisting through difficulties are crucial for personal and professional growth
Quotes:
"Please yourself first... Be very clear about who you are and what you're wanting to do." - Denis Gianoutsos
"If you're going through hell, keep going." - Denis Gianoutsos
"Are you willing to keep going even if it's hard, even though you're out of your comfort zone? Because that's where you're going to grow." - Denis Gianoutsos
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