Establishing a relationship means changing your priorities from what\u2019s best for you, to what\u2019s best for us. The key to making these priorities work is knowing when to change them to meet the demands of your relationship. In this episode, Jon and Alex answer some juicy listener questions about a boyfriends secret gambling debt, getting over past trauma to save a relationship, the shocking truth behind an at-home DNA test, when a fathers apology isn\u2019t enough, and what to\xa0 do when you lose your father in law\u2019s ashes.\n\nSubmit your questions here!\n\n(0:00) Intro\n\n(17:22) The Stress Of Being Laid Off\n\n(18:50) A Secret Gambling Debt\n\n(23:13) Is It OK To Make Friends For Your Wife?\n\n(24:55) How Do You Prioritize Quality Time With Your Partner?\n\n(29:10) Is Past Trauma An Explanation Or An Excuse?\n\n(34:28) Family Secrets Get Exposed With At-Home DNA Kits\n\n(40:10) Asking For Too Much Or Deserving More\n\n(46:48) You Can\u2019t Take Back Words\n\n(52:19) There\u2019s 3 Options And They All Suck\n\n(1:01:55) Icks\n\n(1:06:30) Listener Review\n\nVisit our website www.giveittomestraightpodcast.com\n\nVisit our other website\xa0www.alexjon.com\n\nFind us on Instagram!\n\nPodcast\n\nAlex\n\nJon\n\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices