Our subject for today\u2019s show is divorce. Divorce is far too prevalent in the world of law enforcement, and I have wanted to do a podcast episode about this subject for some time now.
I survived a brutal divorce that lasted over two years and wrote a book about it to help others going through a nasty divorce titled, \u201cDivorced Dad: Kids are Forever, Wives are not.\u201d This book is not full of venom or hate, it is a guide to help those, especially dads, who are navigating the sometimes shark-infested waters of divorce. I used the pen name of L.J. Burke because I was still employed as a cop and didn\u2019t want to deal with the red tape of getting the book approved through the department.\xa0
I felt it would be a good idea to bring on someone with a unique perspective on the subject, Kerrie Droban. Kerrie is also a divorce survivor who now helps others get through their parting of the ways with her family law practice and at one time was married to a homicide detective.
Kerrie Droban received a Master's degree from The Johns Hopkins University Writing Seminars and a Master of Fine Arts and Juris Doctorate from the University of Arizona.
In today\u2019s episode we discuss:
\xb7\xa0 \xa0 \xa0 The reasons for the high rate of divorce among first responders.
\xb7\xa0 \xa0 \xa0 The warning signs of an impending divorce and sometimes ignoring them, listen to your gut feelings.
\xb7\xa0 \xa0 \xa0 When should you think about marriage counseling?\xa0
\xb7\xa0 \xa0 \xa0 Best practices when asking your spouse for a divorce and breaking the news to your children.
\xb7\xa0 \xa0 \xa0 When is it time to get a divorce lawyer and is it a good idea to share one?
\xb7\xa0 \xa0 \xa0 Separation and moving out. Dos and don\u2019ts to protect yourself and your kids.
\xb7\xa0 \xa0 \xa0 Tips on how to soften the damage of divorce on children.
\xb7\xa0 \xa0 \xa0 Avoid speaking poorly about your soon-to-be ex or their parents to your kids.\xa0
\xb7\xa0 \xa0 \xa0 When should you reconsider getting a divorce?
\xb7\xa0 \xa0 \xa0 Self-care during a divorce and avoiding destructive behavior during the process.
\xb7\xa0 \xa0 \xa0 Co-parenting best tips and practices
\xb7\xa0 \xa0 \xa0 When should you start dating?
Visit Kerrie at her website!
Read, Divorced Dad: Kids are Forever, Wives are not.
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