50: Letting Go

Published: Nov. 29, 2021, 3 p.m.

Today\u2019s episode was inspired by a conversation with someone very close to me. I know you will be able to relate. Whether you are in a relationship, or single, you can be navigating hardships and heartaches. You see, I used to find it so challenging when it came to letting go, particularly with men. Thankfully, what I\u2019ve learned, and what I invite you to learn as well, is that the more I shift my mindset to abundance, gratitude and growth - it doesn\u2019t take me as long to let go of things anymore. The more I do this, the easier it is to align myself to the person that I want and desire. Anything that isn\u2019t that, I don\u2019t align with. I am happily able to let go of that someone, or something.

  • Align Yourself to New people and New Energy [3:31]

\u201cIf you don\u2019t like your current situation, obviously it\u2019s time to let go. But if you're in a relationship - work on it first. Don\u2019t just surrender and throw in the towel. \u201d

  • Fear of Loss vs. Fear of Happiness [5:30]

\u201cWe fear loss in fear of being happy. We stay single/stuck in a relationship because we are afraid to be happy.\u201d

  • There is Always Going to be Pain and Hurt [8:49]

\u201cThere is always gonna be the duality - pain and pleasure. Acknowledge the pain it\u2019s gonna create and work through it.\u201d

  • Are You in a Position to Have Love Right Now? [10:25]

\u201cHow am I not showing up for myself today?\u201d\xa0

  • Tune In to You [13:00]

\u201cEmbrace the fear, so that you can learn a lesson and get to the other side of it.\u201d
\u201cThat person who should come, should only compliment you and not complete you.\u201d

  • Keep Aligning to Who You Are and Who You Want to Become [14:15]

\u201cThat next level version of you, who is she?\u201d

  • Hurt People hurt people, Free People free people [15:50]

\u201cAudit yourself now, tune into your messes, insecurities etc. in order to start showing up differently.\u201d\xa0

  • Stand Up for Yourself [17:48]

\u201cIf they\u2019re not showing up for themselves the way that you like, you have the power to let them go.\u201d

  • Be Strong in Your Boundaries [18:45]

\u201cI love you, but I love myself more.\u201d\xa0

  • Get Really in Alignment and Excited About What You\u2019re Wanting [23::13]

\u201cNo more self-sabotaging, just keep focusing on yourself.\u201d\xa0



Remember, if you keep thinking or saying what you don\u2019t want, you\u2019re only going to keep attracting them. Shift to abundance, positivity, possibility and gratitude. If you love this episode let me know and send me a message on instagram! I want to lead you to become more confident and create the life you crave! I want to help you shift your mindset, so that you are showing up as the highest version of yourself!



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