Podcasts Health Ending The Sexual Dark Age
Ending The Sexual Dark Age

Ending The Sexual Dark Age

100 episodes

Despite what most of us are led to believe, there is nothing mysterious or elusive about the female orgasm. This is one of the many things you were probably never taught about sex, since you grew up in a society too afraid of it to have truly open dialogue on the subject. Ending the Sexual Dark Age will guide you, a step at a time, to the healthy attitude towards sexuality that you would have been taught in a genuinely civilized world. From practical techniques to sexual philosophy, you’ll learn you how to have better sex and more of it; in a friendly atmosphere that doesn’t demean or coddle. As a matter of fair warning, I use blunt language with a "no BS" style, and occasionally I say things that would make a sailor blush. Feel free to address any questions, concerns, comments or tirades to jvaltharas at gmail dot com.

Podcasts

101 Bringing Kink Back To Paradise

Published: May 31, 2022, 11:27 p.m.
Duration: 23 minutes 34 seconds

Listed in: Health

100 Friends Swing By For The Centennial Episode

Published: Aug. 18, 2019, 9:33 p.m.
Duration: 50 minutes 39 seconds

Listed in: Health

099 Dungeon Night Debrief 2018

Published: July 20, 2019, 10:29 p.m.
Duration: 1 hour 18 minutes 14 seconds

Listed in: Health

098 Total Desire Recall 2018 (Part 2)

Published: June 23, 2019, 4:10 p.m.
Duration: 1 hour 49 seconds

Listed in: Health

097 Total Desire Recall 2018 (Part 1)

Published: June 15, 2019, 4:32 p.m.
Duration: 52 minutes 43 seconds

Listed in: Health

096 So JV Almost Died Last Year...

Published: June 3, 2019, 10:18 p.m.
Duration: 30 minutes 29 seconds

Listed in: Health

095 Dungeon Night Debrief (Part 2) - Desire 2017 Takeover

Published: Feb. 11, 2018, 5:37 p.m.
Duration: 1 hour 6 minutes 29 seconds

Listed in: Health

094 Dungeon Night Debrief (Part 1) - Desire 2017 Takeover

Published: Dec. 30, 2017, 1:31 a.m.
Duration: 51 minutes 18 seconds

Listed in: Health

093 Folsom Street Fair Edition (Part 2)

Published: Oct. 2, 2017, 9:56 p.m.
Duration: 1 hour 5 minutes 19 seconds

Listed in: Health

092 Folsom Street Fair Edition (Part 1)

Published: Oct. 1, 2017, 6:14 p.m.
Duration: 1 hour 9 seconds

Listed in: Health

091 Hotties Under The Collar: The Submissives Record Their Own Episode

Published: Sept. 30, 2017, 1:54 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 31 seconds

Listed in: Health

090 Talking Kinky Sex With Tristan Taormino

Published: Sept. 4, 2017, 9:28 p.m.
Duration: 1 hour 14 minutes 27 seconds

Listed in: Health

089 Sexy Times In San Francisco and An Erotic Dinner With Our Gourmet Life

Published: July 9, 2017, 11:39 p.m.
Duration: 37 minutes 53 seconds

Listed in: Health

088 Midori On Using Communication To Make Hot Play Happen

Published: June 9, 2017, 2:12 a.m.
Duration: 55 minutes 33 seconds

Listed in: Health

087 Interview With Cooper S Beckett On His New Book "Approaching The Swingularity"

Published: April 20, 2017, 12:57 a.m.
Duration: 38 minutes 41 seconds

Listed in: Health

086 Fetish Club Reviews: Choice Social and Galleria Domain 2

Published: April 4, 2017, 12:18 a.m.
Duration: 40 minutes 7 seconds

Listed in: Health

085 LotSS 279 Desire Takeover 2016 Recap & LIfe On The Swingset 7th Anniversary

Published: March 18, 2017, 2:58 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 43 minutes 46 seconds

Listed in: Health

084 Interview With Midori (Part 2) On Her Female Dominance Intensive: ForteFemme, Our New Toys From Fetish Fair Flea

Published: March 9, 2017, 2:59 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour

Listed in: Health

083 Interview with Midori (Part 1) On Kinky Archetypes And The True Meaning of BDSM

Published: March 3, 2017, 12:15 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 2 minutes 47 seconds

Listed in: Health

082 PTSD & BDSM

Published: March 1, 2017, 12:57 a.m.
Duration: 40 minutes 43 seconds

Listed in: Health

081 New Year, New Studio

Published: Jan. 5, 2017, 1:25 a.m.
Duration: 53 minutes 21 seconds

Listed in: Health

080 Dungeon Desire DM Roundup

Published: Nov. 21, 2016, 3:18 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 7 minutes 20 seconds

Listed in: Health

079 PTSD Triggers, BDSM Play, and The Perils of Looking For Dominants Online

Published: Oct. 23, 2016, 5:10 p.m.
Duration: 41 minutes 8 seconds

Listed in: Health

078 Orgasms On Command

Published: Oct. 6, 2016, 11:27 p.m.
Duration: 52 minutes 14 seconds

Listed in: Health

077 Desire Takeover Special with Jim from Char Travel

Published: Oct. 6, 2016, 1:29 a.m.
Duration: 32 minutes 1 second

Listed in: Health

076 Swing Club Strikeouts and Erotic Asphyxiation

Published: Aug. 8, 2016, 1:17 a.m.
Duration: 34 minutes 5 seconds

Listed in: Health

075 Thirty Naked People And A Microphone 2015

Published: Nov. 24, 2015, 12:37 a.m.
Duration: 44 minutes 22 seconds

Listed in: Health

074 Kinky Listener Mail - Munches, Kinky Monotony, Threesomes, Performance Anxiety

Published: Sept. 1, 2015, 10:51 p.m.
Duration: 1 hour 7 minutes 46 seconds

Listed in: Health

073 Getting Kinky In Paradise with Ginger & The Prof

Published: June 6, 2015, 11:14 p.m.
Duration: 1 hour 20 minutes 17 seconds

Listed in: Health

072 Recovering From Sexual Assault: Interviews With Victims Who've Become Educators & Advocates

Published: May 16, 2015, 4 p.m.
Duration: 1 hour 17 minutes 59 seconds

Listed in: Health

071 Interview: Private Gym Creator David Mandell On Better, Stronger Cocks Through Kegel Exercises for Men

Published: April 2, 2015, 2:04 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 7 minutes 43 seconds

Listed in: Health

070 Budget Bondage For Beginners And Other Cost Conscious Kink

Published: Feb. 12, 2015, 3:18 a.m.
Duration: 43 minutes 33 seconds

Listed in: Health

069 Interview: Dee Dennis, Founder/Organizer of CatalystCon

Published: Jan. 15, 2015, 2:43 a.m.
Duration: 36 minutes 21 seconds

Listed in: Health

068 Interview: Cooper Beckett On His New Book, "My Life On The Swingset"

Published: Jan. 6, 2015, 5:01 a.m.
Duration: 5 minutes 56 seconds

Listed in: Health

067 Sex News 12/21/14 | Condoms In Porn, Semen Fights Depression, The Pill Affects Attraction, Orgasms & Brain Science, FL Same-Sex Marriage, Naked Revenge

Published: Dec. 21, 2014, 4:59 p.m.
Duration: 43 minutes 43 seconds

Listed in: Health

066 Same-Sexploration, Munch Shyness and a Stinky Cowboy

Published: Dec. 9, 2014, 2:23 a.m.
Duration: 35 minutes 57 seconds

Listed in: Health

065 Live From Desire - Ending The Sexual Dark Age on The Swingset

Published: Nov. 26, 2014, 10:24 p.m.
Duration: 1 hour 8 minutes 41 seconds

Listed in: Health

064 Dealing With An Asexual Relationship

Published: Nov. 23, 2014, 9:27 p.m.
Duration: 27 minutes 12 seconds

Listed in: Health

063 Back From Desire

Published: Nov. 21, 2014, 2:56 a.m.
Duration: 47 minutes 21 seconds

Listed in: Health

062 Cum and Chemo, Swallowing Advice, Toning Down Your Dominant Side, Swinging In Cancun

Published: June 29, 2014, 9:04 p.m.
Duration: 37 minutes 57 seconds

Listed in: Health

061 Ending The Sexual Dark Age On The Swingset - Polyamory, Pegging, Eating Creampies and Much More!

Published: June 11, 2014, 7 p.m.
Duration: 1 hour 11 minutes 35 seconds

Listed in: Health

060 The Hiatus Endeth

Published: May 29, 2014, 12:57 a.m.
Duration: 35 minutes 28 seconds

Listed in: Health

059 Talking Dirty, Overbearing Parents, Bringing the Kink Back

Published: Jan. 13, 2014, 12:41 a.m.
Duration: 37 minutes 26 seconds

Listed in: Health

058 Cannibalism Fetish, Kegel Exercises For The Blind, Muscle Relaxers Suppressing Orgasms

Published: Dec. 23, 2013, 1:11 a.m.
Duration: 52 minutes 45 seconds

Listed in: Health

057 BDSM and Virginity, Taking Constructive Criticism As A Submissive, Books for New Dominants, Hot For Teacher

Published: Nov. 24, 2013, 10:43 p.m.
Duration: 50 minutes 53 seconds

Listed in: Health

056 Masturbation, Virginity, Orgasm Training, Submissive Support Group, Fetish Modeling

Published: Nov. 10, 2013, 4:54 p.m.
Duration: 54 minutes 47 seconds

Listed in: Health

055 We're Not Dead, Deep Throating Tips, Breath Play/Erotic Asphyxiation, Party in Vegas for the AVN Expo

Published: Nov. 2, 2013, 4:54 p.m.
Duration: 40 minutes 19 seconds

Listed in: Health

054 Adultery Isn't Cool

Published: Dec. 4, 2012, 1:33 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 8 minutes 53 seconds

Listed in: Health

053 Getting Girls, Breaking The Swing Ice, The Gift of Panties, Kegel Exercise Orgasms

Published: Sept. 24, 2012, 10:04 p.m.
Duration: 41 minutes 20 seconds

Listed in: Health

052 FFM Threesomes: Seducing Women As A Couple, First Vibrator Advice

Published: Sept. 14, 2012, 1:54 a.m.
Duration: 52 minutes 37 seconds

Listed in: Health

051 Vaginoplasty, Loss of Focus During Sex

Published: Sept. 5, 2012, 2:36 a.m.
Duration: 44 minutes 26 seconds

Listed in: Health

050 Relationships: Re-Lighting The Fire When The Sex Has Dried Up

Published: Aug. 26, 2012, 9:37 p.m.
Duration: 43 minutes 37 seconds

Listed in: Health

049 Weight Loss & Sex Drive, Review Of KY Yours & Mine, Squirting and How She Can Say "Thank You," On Air Spankings For Shara

Published: Aug. 18, 2012, 2:54 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 3 seconds

Listed in: Health

048 Bad Blowjobs, What A Female Orgasm Feels Like

Published: Aug. 8, 2012, 1:42 a.m.
Duration: 32 minutes 48 seconds

Listed in: Health

047 Birthday Spankings for Shara, Toxic Sex Toys, Dating Confidence Issues

Published: Aug. 2, 2012, 1:10 a.m.
Duration: 39 minutes 57 seconds

Listed in: Health

046 Cheating Swingers, Painful Boners, Working in the Adult Industry, Becoming A Phone Sex Operator

Published: July 24, 2012, 1:21 a.m.
Duration: 52 minutes 12 seconds

Listed in: Health

045 BDSM Advice: Collars, BDSM Checklists, Assertive Submission, Rape Fantasies

Published: March 31, 2012, 10 p.m.
Duration: 48 minutes 8 seconds

Listed in: Health

044 Advice Line: Swinging Etiquette, Squirting, Kinky Punishment Play

Published: March 21, 2012, 3 a.m.
Duration: 35 minutes 53 seconds

Listed in: Health

043 The Clitoris: Things You Probably Don't Know

Published: Feb. 23, 2012, 4:20 a.m.
Duration: 29 minutes 41 seconds

Listed in: Health

042 BDSM Guide: Feminism and Sexual Submission

Published: Jan. 18, 2012, 4:07 a.m.
Duration: 39 minutes 4 seconds

Listed in: Health

041 Advice Line: Too Many Orgasms, Getting Back On Track After Poor Performance, Men Intimidated By Confident Women, Post-Wedding Lack Of Sex

Published: Nov. 16, 2011, 5:30 a.m.
Duration: 39 minutes 8 seconds

Listed in: Health

040 BDSM Guide: Sexual Dominance Part 2, Communication, Reading Your Sub, Bondage, Hair Pulling, Giving Orders, Throat Fucking and Pain Play for New Doms

Published: Oct. 25, 2011, 5:58 a.m.
Duration: 57 minutes 14 seconds

Listed in: Health

039 Advice Line: Vaginism, Struggling With Monogamy, Bisexuality and Bicuriosity

Published: Sept. 30, 2011, 11:30 p.m.
Duration: 49 minutes 35 seconds

Listed in: Health

038 BDSM Guide: Sexual Dominance Part 1, Getting Your Head In The Right Space

Published: Sept. 13, 2011, 5:07 a.m.
Duration: 52 minutes 44 seconds

Listed in: Health

037 Advice Line: Sex-Positive Christians, Condom Problems, Praying Away The Gay

Published: Aug. 22, 2011, 5:25 a.m.
Duration: 35 minutes 27 seconds

Listed in: Health

036.1 Audio Erotica: "A Shalar Is Born"

Published: Aug. 3, 2011, 4:30 a.m.
Duration: 21 minutes 6 seconds

Listed in: Health

035 Advice Line: Painful Anal, Menstrual Sex, BDSM Mentoring, Female Masturbation for Beginners

Published: July 17, 2011, 2:58 p.m.
Duration: 45 minutes 9 seconds

Listed in: Health

034 Anal Sex Guide: Why Guys Want It, Anal Porn, Anal Health and Safety, Ass Play With Toys

Published: June 30, 2011, 2:20 a.m.
Duration: 39 minutes 52 seconds

Listed in: Health

033 Advice Quickie: Coming Out As A Bisexual Guy When You're A Swinger

Published: June 23, 2011, 10:23 p.m.
Duration: 9 minutes 34 seconds

Listed in: Health

032 Advice Line: How To Ride A Cock, Making Your Own Bondage Gear, Dealing With Male Sexual Stamina Issues

Published: June 15, 2011, 5:18 a.m.
Duration: 38 minutes 40 seconds

Listed in: Health

031 Swinging Part 2: BDSM, Single Swingers, Bisexuality, Open Relationships

Published: May 31, 2011, 11:48 p.m.
Duration: 1 hour 37 minutes 37 seconds

Listed in: Health

030 Advice Line: Anal & Hemorrhoids, Handling Girth With Your Mouth, Sex & New Parents, The Down Side of Safe Words In Kinky Play

Published: May 18, 2011, 2:32 a.m.
Duration: 45 minutes 35 seconds

Listed in: Health

029 Swinging Part 1: Tips For Newbie Swingers, Jealousy, Swinger Parties, Finding Swingers Online

Published: May 3, 2011, 3:38 a.m.
Duration: 59 minutes 15 seconds

Listed in: Health

028 Advice Line: Bi-Bashing Gays, Soft-Selling Your Kinky Side, A Sexual Fresh Start, Teaching A Guy To Be A Dominant

Published: April 21, 2011, 4:52 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 4 minutes 29 seconds

Listed in: Health

027 Group Sex Basics: Threesomes, Swinging, Polyamory, Orgies, Bi-Curiosity, Limits And Safe Words

Published: April 6, 2011, 6 a.m.
Duration: 57 minutes 11 seconds

Listed in: Health

026 Gays In The U.S. Military

Published: March 22, 2011, 3:19 a.m.
Duration: 58 minutes 1 second

Listed in: Health

025 Advice Line: A Granny Beats A Public Masturbator With A Dildo, Moving Past Sexual Trauma, Numbness From Vibrators, Double Penetration Hesitation

Published: March 15, 2011, 5:35 a.m.
Duration: N/A

Listed in: Health

024 Homophobia, Bisexuality, How Society Teaches Gay Hate, Homosexuality In The Ancient World

Published: March 8, 2011, 3:15 a.m.
Duration: 41 minutes 6 seconds

Listed in: Health

023 Advice Line: Getting Hubby On Board For Kinky Sex, Helping Guys With Size Paranoia, Helping A Nice Girl Find Her Slutty Side

Published: Feb. 21, 2011, 6:07 a.m.
Duration: 40 minutes 33 seconds

Listed in: Health

022 Sex On Location: Having Sex In Cars, On The Beach, Around The House, Outdoors, In The Shower And More

Published: Feb. 14, 2011, 5:58 a.m.
Duration: 31 minutes 49 seconds

Listed in: Health

021 Advice Line: Cock Rings, Sex Journals, Masturbation Stigmas, Polyamorous Complications

Published: Feb. 7, 2011, 4:40 a.m.
Duration: 48 minutes 53 seconds

Listed in: Health

020 Audio Erotica "The Taking of Ariel"

Published: Jan. 31, 2011, 2:36 a.m.
Duration: 45 minutes 34 seconds

Listed in: Health

019 BDSM Basics Part 2: Negotiating Scenes, Fetish Parties & Clubs, Defining "Fetish," Introducing BDSM To Your Relationship, Listener Questions On Kink

Published: Jan. 24, 2011, 6:34 a.m.
Duration: 56 minutes 22 seconds

Listed in: Health

018 Advice Line: Why Guys Like Facial Cumshots, Laser Pube Removal, Unsafe Sex Toys, False Accusations of Cheating

Published: Jan. 17, 2011, 5:12 a.m.
Duration: 41 minutes 31 seconds

Listed in: Health

017 BDSM Basics Part 1: What 'BDSM' Means, Marquis DuSade, Sadism vs. Sadomasochism, Safe Words, Munches, BDSM Porn

Published: Jan. 10, 2011, 2:25 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 40 minutes 51 seconds

Listed in: Health

016 Advice Line: Health Issues With Ass-To-Pussy, Pussy Shaving Woes, Music And Sex, Hospital-Grade Ball Shaving

Published: Dec. 27, 2010, 4:40 a.m.
Duration: 42 minutes 5 seconds

Listed in: Health

015 Audio Erotica "Timing Is Everything"

Published: Dec. 20, 2010, 12:29 a.m.
Duration: 24 minutes

Listed in: Health

014 Laryngitis Sucks

Published: Dec. 13, 2010, 1:20 a.m.
Duration: 55 seconds

Listed in: Health

013 Advice Line: Taking Virginity, Managing Two Subs In A Threesome, Sexual Piercings

Published: Dec. 6, 2010, 10:24 a.m.
Duration: 55 minutes 37 seconds

Listed in: Health

012 Cunni Linguistics: How To Be Good At Licking Pussy And Why Shaving Improves Oral Sex

Published: Nov. 29, 2010, 6:08 a.m.
Duration: 40 minutes 5 seconds

Listed in: Health

011 Advice Line: Threesome Insecurity, An Awesome Oral Sex Game, Age-Inappropriate Relationships, Fixing A Lame Sex Life

Published: Nov. 22, 2010, 4:25 a.m.
Duration: 41 minutes 21 seconds

Listed in: Health

010 The Art of Smoking Pole: Why Blowjobs Are Important, How To Suck A Dick and How Shaving Can Get You Blown More Often

Published: Nov. 15, 2010, 5:15 a.m.
Duration: 42 minutes 42 seconds

Listed in: Health

009 Advice Line: Curing Prostatitis, A Woman Who Can't Masturbate to Climax, Introducing Kink To Your Bedroom

Published: Nov. 7, 2010, 5:52 a.m.
Duration: 32 minutes 54 seconds

Listed in: Health

008 Sex Toys Rock: Why Every Woman Should Own Dildos and Vibrators, How Guys Can Take Advantage Of Them

Published: Nov. 1, 2010, 2:53 a.m.
Duration: 41 minutes 2 seconds

Listed in: Health

007 Masturbation is Good For You

Published: Oct. 18, 2010, 1:33 a.m.
Duration: 33 minutes 31 seconds

Listed in: Health

006 Advice Line: Getting Over Shyness To Talk About Sex With Your Lover

Published: Oct. 8, 2010, 2:50 a.m.
Duration: 12 minutes 57 seconds

Listed in: Health

005 Religion And Sexual Shame

Published: Oct. 4, 2010, 5:22 a.m.
Duration: 49 minutes

Listed in: Health

004 Male Sexual Stamina: How To Love Her Long Time

Published: Sept. 19, 2010, 7:34 a.m.
Duration: 29 minutes 52 seconds

Listed in: Health

003 Meet The Female Orgasm: Fake Orgasms, Women Who Can't Climax, Orgasm Denial

Published: Sept. 6, 2010, 10:03 a.m.
Duration: 35 minutes 55 seconds

Listed in: Health

002 Size Matters...Kinda: The Truth About Cock Size and Tit Size

Published: Aug. 22, 2010, 8:28 a.m.
Duration: 31 minutes 46 seconds

Listed in: Health

001 The Sexual Dark Age

Published: Aug. 7, 2010, 2 p.m.
Duration: 21 minutes 42 seconds

Listed in: Health