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Deirdre Dyment is an interior designer who believes in designing an overall experience at home that leaves you spiritually energized and equipped to live your life passionately. Deirdre knows all too well, there’s much more involved in leaving the matrimonial home than packing a suitcase and signing a lease. When she separated from her husband in 2007, she, unusually, helped him get set up in his new place, from stripping the floors and painting the walls to measuring and ordering furniture. They also got their two kids involved in creating their bedrooms.
The experience has since motivated Dyment to launch a novel service – post-divorce decorating – that assists in feathering the nests of newly single men in particular, whether it’s coordinating their renovations or sourcing and installing art to enliven their empty walls.
Topics in this program include:
• What are the different things can be done to make transition easier and less disruptive for children
• The emotional strain of leaving the family home; where to live, how much to spend and do you rent or purchase.
• Creating an environment that will inspire and get the individual that has moved excited about the next chapter of their life.
• Creating a space that reflects your personality and happiness.
http://www.deirdredymentdesign.com
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In episode #3 of Beyond Divorce, Susan Pease Gadoua discusses Not Missing the Lessons from Past Relationships & How to Not Make the Same Mistakes - Regardless of what went wrong in the marriage or past relationships, YOU were part of the equation.
The "stories" we have about what went wrong in past relationships are revealing as to where our unhealed wounds reside. If you don't work on healing them, they will show up in the next relationship too!
This program will help you better understand and identify patterns that may not have served you in past relationships and suggests how to do your inner work so that you can avoid these behaviors from resurfacing again in future relationships.
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If you find yourself stuck in a state of blaming your ex for most of the problems in your relationship, this program will help you understand how to take responsibility for your part of what went wrong in your relationship thus allowing you to take back control of your life.
Once you have moved into acceptance of your life, you can concentrate on moving on after divorce. Moving on means connecting with what is now important to you. Moving on means discovering what you truly want from life, what makes you come alive and brings you joy.
This episode of Divorce Recovery with Shelley Stile will help you become empowered, confident and enthusiastic to move on. You will learn to take full responsibility and control of your life and transform it into something wonderful and new.
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In this episode of Divorce Recovery, Divorce/Life Coach, Shelley Stile teaches us how not to distort the reality of our situation.
When we are living our lives in a state of true awareness wherein we are truly conscious of our actions, we can free ourselves from reactive, self defeating behavior and realize our personal best. Unfortunately, although we may think that we make conscious decisions; in reality our unconscious mind impacts our behavior. Our actions are therefore not truly under our control. We can learn to recognize the unconscious, that part of our mind that has great power over much of our actions without us even being aware of its existence. In doing so, we can diminish its power over us.
When we live on a conscious level, we are as alert to what is happening as a deer in the woods who hears something unknown. We insure that our actions, our decisions, our communications are not influenced by the myriad filters we apply to life. We don’t look through rose colored or black glasses; we choose to look through crystal clear ones that do not distort reality.
In this program we learn how to recognize when we slip into unconsciousness, thereby training ourselves to be more and more conscious of what is really happening. We free ourselves from, doing the same things over and over again. We learn from our heightened sense of awareness. We begin to see things differently, in a much more objective and clear way.
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Prior to the internet with its chat rooms and pornography, social media websites, such as Facebook, and cell phones with text messaging, proving a partner's infidelity or financial indiscretions was a difficult task.
Today, it's quite common during a divorce to subpoena the contents of a spouse's computer, cell phone records and text messages. You've probably heard of politicians and celebrities being brought down, in part, by what was discovered in their email, text messages or internet browsing history.
In today's program, family law attorney, Henry Gornbein, and I discuss the fall-out of today's technology and address how the discovery of this information can affect a marriage and, ultimately, a divorce.
We'll take a look at this from a legal perspective pertaining to your right to privacy, and we'll provide strong advice regarding the use of this new communications medium during a divorce.
For more free programs on divorce, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com
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Divorce is never easy, and divorcing with children of any age makes it that much more difficult.
Most information on divorce where children are involved is directed to families with younger children. This program takes a look at the challenges of divorcing when your children are in their teens and twenties.
Psychologist Dr. Larry Friedberg is our guest and provides helpful insight for parents going through divorce with older children.
Topics Include:
How Custody Issues Change as Kids Grow Older, Dealing with Your Kids' Anger and Resentment, Co-Parenting, Understanding How your Kids are Feeling, Why Communicating with Your Ex is Critical, and more.
For more Free programs, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com
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Facing such a big decision can be daunting. Feelings of sadness, guilt, fear and anger are normal now, especially if your spouse is unaware of the extent of your unhappiness or you feel unsupported. You are not alone. There are hundreds of thousands of people feeling stuck in matrimonial confusion. No matter how difficult the circumstances you face, there is a solution.
In this program, Susan Pease Gadoua, author of Contemplating Divorce, A Step-byStep Guide to Deciding Whether to Stay or Go, addresses the issues individuals face as they decide to work through their marriage issues or file for divorce.
Topics in the program Include:
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Author and creator or the The Child Centered Divorce, Rosalind Sedacca, joins us and shares valuable insight on how to break the news to our children that mom and dad will no longer be living together.
One of the most difficult things to do after deciding you are getting a divorce is telling your children. Rosalind's book, How Do I Tell The Kids about the Divorce? - A Create-A-Story Book Guide for Preparing Your Children - with Love!, addresses this issue in a unique way.
By adopting the principles outlined in The Child Centered Divorce, families stand a greater chance of raising healthy children and reducing future co-parenting problems by divorcing with dignity. If you are planning to divorce and haven't yet told your kids, this is a program you need to hear.
For more free programs on divorce, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com
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· How to deal with your feelings and emotions during this trying time
· Understanding issues your children may be dealing with during the Holiday season
· Dividing parenting time between you and your ex
· Tips for Holiday parties and gatherings to ease the stress
· Is it proper to begin dating around the Holidays
For more programs related to divorce and life after divorce, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com
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· Women today are generally very educated and aware – how would they become victims of abuse?
· What are some of the myths and stereotypes about VAW?
· Why do women stay in abusive relationships?
· What are some of the causes of VAW?
· What are some of your organization’s programs to end violence against women?
· What is the vision of Violence Against Women?
Exit Now: Cover Your Tracks - http://www.jwicanada.com/exit-now.php
Violence Against Women – Information and Help - http://www.jwicanada.com/vaw-definition.php
To contact Penny Krowitz or for more information about Act To End Violence Against Women call 1-866-333-5942 or email info@acttoendvaw.org or visit: http://www.acttoendvaw.org/
For more programs related to divorce and life after divorce, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.
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2. Children Carrying Messages between Parents
3. Long Distance Parenting
4. Quizzing Children about the Other Parent
5. Putting Down the Other Parent
Learn skills that will immediately change the way you interact
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Divorce/Life Coach, Laura Campbell joins us to discuss how we can have an effortless, extraordinary life and love on Divorce Source Radio with Steve Peck.
Divorce is the dissolution of a profound and significant love relationship and while it feels like an end, is really the beginning of a journey towards attracting, creating, embracing and enjoying an effortless, extraordinary life and love.
Finding your ideal relationship can happen at any time and at any place. However, if you are not living a life that allows you to interact with potential partners, it is going to be difficult to find one.
Topics in the program include:
For more on Laura Campbell and to receive her special offer for Divorce Source Radio listeners, visit: www.DiscoverTheDSpot.com
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The Leon Walker case has received national attention as a landmark case related to email privacy issues. Leon Walker Faces felony charges and up to 5-years in prison for reading his wife's emails.
Expert pundits on CNN have debated this case and many feel there is no merit to the charges, especially at a felony level. Leon Walker provided an exclusive interview with Divorce Source Radio's Steve Peck. This show provides a window into what Leon Walker has endured since being charged with the crime in 2011. Leon tells his version of the story and noted author and forensic trial consultant, Dean Tong, helps us sort through the legal maneuvers the prosecutor and defense might be considering.
Mr. Walker has been financially devastated and his life has been turned upside down due the charges filed against him. Does the county prosecuting the case really want to spend close to $500,000 of taxpayers' money to lock this man up for reading his wife's email? Mr. Walker claims he did so for the well-being of his kids. He had reason to believe the children were being subjected to a potentially abusive situation as his wife was seeing an ex with an abusive past.
So what do you think? Send us your thoughts at DivorceSourceRadio@Gmail.com or on our Facebook page at: www.Facebook.com/DivorceSourceRadio.com.
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(Listener Note: This is part one of a three-part series. To find the other episodes, search "Intelligent Divorce" from the Divorce Source Radio "search" bar.)
In this episode of The Intelligent Divorce with Mark Banschick, M.D., we begin a three part series on Blended Families.
Stepfamilies, also known as blended families, are more of a norm now than ever, with 65% of remarriages including children from previous relationships. When families “blend” to create stepfamilies, though, things rarely progress smoothly. Some children may resist the many changes they face, while parents may become frustrated or disappointed when the new family doesn’t function like their previous family.
While changes to family structure require some adjustment time for everyone involved, with the right guidance and realistic expectations, most blended families are able to work out their growing pains and live together successfully. Open communication, positive attitudes, mutual respect, and plenty of love and patience all have an important place in creating a healthy blended family.
For more on Dr. Banschick, visit: www.TheIntelligentDivorce.com.
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Understanding what mediation is as a process, and finding the right mediator, are critical elements to developing a smart and long lasting parenting and financial agreements that are predicated on informed, thoughtful decision making. A good mediator will discuss what your goals are for the process, what is important to each of you and will help you to craft a plan that addresses those goals and intentions. This is important to understand, as all mediators are not created equal!
Our guest, Cara Raich, (http://www.srmediators.com/mediators/cara-raich-esq/) (http://mediatetrix.wordpress.com/) explores the specifics of mediation in this episode of The Smart Divorce, with Deborah Moskovitch and Steve Peck. Cara is a mediator and attorney who specializes in helping people find non-adversarial resolutions to conflict. She mediates a wide range of cases including divorce, family conflicts, and organizational and civil disputes.
Cara is dedicated to helping her clients avoid the challenges and acrimony that frequently accompany adversarial proceedings. She does this by enabling her clients to come to realistic and informed agreements that work for them and their families. Cara believes that separation and divorce are family matters with a legal element, not a lawsuit that happens to be about a family.
To understand how these goals are accomplished in a fair and reasonable manner – and gain perspectives on alternative ways to view mediation and settlement we discuss:
This interview will surely help you understand the many aspects of mediation.
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Regular communication between you and your ex will help to make your co-parenting more successful. Communicating clearly is hard work. You and the your former partner may have longstanding conflicts that make it difficult to discuss any issue. You might misunderstand each other. Do your best to set aside those past differences and relationship issues.
In this episode of "Ask Henry" on Divorce Source Radio, Attorney Henry Gornbein addresses the topic of Parenting Time, formerly known as Visitation.
Successful Do's for Co-Parenting - Making The Most of Your Time with Your Kids
(The Program was recorded at The Divorce Expo in Michigan)
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In this episode of Divorce Source Radio with Steve Peck, we introduce our listeners to a new online resource for divorce. LifeThruDivorce.com was the brainchild of a group of friends who has each been touched by divorce. After having found that there is no single reliable, full-service resource to get advice, support, and empowerment from professionals and peers, they banded together to help others navigate the uncharted, and sometimes rough, seas.
Experts providing content to LifeThruDivorce include attorneys, financial planners, family therapists, mediators, realtors, travel agents, and much more. The website has resources designed to help you, regardless of the stage of the divorce process in which you find yourself, including content for parents to help identify and address their child’s emotions, stress, and acceptance.
In this program, we're joined by LifeThruDivorce partners, Perri Teitelbaum and Michelle Zudeck. Later in the show, we're joined by a contributor to the site, advisor Julie Arkush.
To check out the website and learn more, visit: www.LifeThruDivorce.com.
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Food plays an important role in our lives, as both sustainment and enjoyment. When going through a divorce, many people's eating habits change. Some people are so depressed, they don't feel like eating at all. Others look at food as something that comforts, and they find themselves over-eating as a means of feeling better.
In this episode of The Intelligent Divorce with Mark Banschick, M.D., we unwrap the truth about food and eating disorders. Eating disorders are one of the psychiatric illnesses that result in a number of medical complications, such as electrolyte imbalances, osteoporosis, and dental problems, as well as the many diseases related to obesity.
In this program, you'll learn the importance of eating healthy during one of the most stressful times in your life. Dr. Banschick also educates us on the signs that you may have an eating disorder.
For more on Dr. Banschick visit: www.TheIntelligentDivorce.com
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In this episode of Divorce Source Radio with Steve Peck, Audrey Silcox, founder of the Divorce Tool Box, joins us. Audrey is a certified divorce and family mediator, with credentials from two supreme courts, and a certified professional coach specializing in divorce.
The Divorce Tool Box is designed to help people through this most difficult stage in their lives with the tools to move forward towards a healthier, happier future. Whether contemplating divorce, making the decision to leave, in the middle of divorce, or putting your life back together after divorce, Divorce Tool Box provides valuable and comprehensive information to help you through the divorce process.
For more info on Audrey Silcox and The Divorce Tool Box, visit www.DivorceToolBox.com. (This program was recorded at The Divorce Expo in Novi, Michigan)
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Has anything every stood in the way of having a healthy, sexual relationship with your partner? In this episode of Sex after Divorce with Sex Therapist, Juliana Neiman, we learn how to create better future sexual relationships.
Topics discussed in the program:
For more on Juliana Neiman, visit: www.JulianaNeiman.com
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In this episode of Divorce Source Radio with Steve Peck, divorce coach Karen McMahon joins us to discuss Fear During Divorce.
With all the changes that are happening at once, it's like the ground beneath our feet is shifting and moving. Suddenly what lies ahead is unknown. During fear, our "what if’s" are never positive. What if I lose custody, can’t afford the house, don’t have enough money to live on, cannot find a job…
In fear, we begin to distort reality. Much like a circus mirror, fear leaves us seeing only a distorted view of our reality. Karen helps us understand where our distorted ‘fear reality’ comes from and offers hope and a healthier way of looking at our current situation.
For more on Karen, visit: www.KarenMcMahon.com
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During the second half of the program, Lesley wonders if it's proper to go to an ex's aunt's funeral and Steve is tormented with having to go to his son's graduation from college after not seeing his ex in three years since his divorce. Joanie shares how she has dealt with these same situations during the course of her divorce and offers a more mature approach.
For more on Dr. Bloom visit: www.DrJudiBloom.com. Be sure to "like" us on Facebook at www.Facebook.com/SingleAgainNowWhat, and feel free to drop us a line at DivorceSourceRadio@gmail.com.
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This episode was recorded at TDE 2012 and features Rodrick Walters of The Upbeat Dad Organization based out of Miami, Florida. This is a great program for ALL dads to listen to and moms as well. If you know a father who's not being all he can be for the sake of his kids, please share this program with them.
Rodrick went through a devastating divorce in the early 2000s. His little girl was just three at the time and there were challenges that greatly reduced parenting time with his daughter, especially when his ex moved out of state. Some dads lose touch with their children due to the circumstances of their divorce and Rodrick encouraged dads to stay involved in the lives of their children.
Marital separation and divorce are challenging but they do not have to be destructive. With the Upbeat Dad approach, fathers can stay connected with their children and have a powerful impact in their life. This program is about manning up to be a good father. Our kids need us in their lives and we need them in ours.
For more on The Upbeat Dad Organization, visit: www.TheUpbeatDad.com.
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Finding the "right fit" Problem Solving Attorney for your case
For more on Mark Baer, visit: http://www.markbaeresq.com.
· Should you keep or sell the house during divorce?
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This program was recorded at The Divorce Expo in March, 2012, and features Singer/Songwriter, Terry Radigan. Radigan debuted her first solo record, Radigan, which was released in 2000, and was praised by the likes of Billboard, Rolling Stone, People Magazine, and Mademoiselle, among others. Since then, Radigan has had her songs recorded by powerhouses, Faith Hill, Trisha Yearwood, Pam Tillis, Patty Loveless, Anuna, City High, Vinyl Pinups, and many more.
Fast forward to 2012, and you’ll find Radigan's latest album, The Breakdown of a Breakup. The album is a candid story of the breakup of a twenty-year relationship; sorrow, anger, wilderness, and the final phase of empowerment and moving on.
Terry shares her personal breakup story and tells how writing her new album was a form of therapy. (The good news is, writers write some of their biggest hits during a breakup, and this album is awesome!) And if you find yourself going through divorce, you'll totally relate to her songs.
In this podcast, we feature two songs from Terry's new album, Love Wouldn't Lie To Me and Not Giving Up On Love. For more on Terry and her music, visit: www.TerryRadigan.com.
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Spring has sprung, and Joanie in Massachusetts, Lesley in Atlanta, and Steve in Detroit are lovin' it!
We're calling this episode our Spring Open Forum as we touch on a ton of topics. We talk about disappointments when life doesn't go your way. We then shift into sports, and as it turns out, Joanie and Lesley are avid sports fans.
Topics discussed in this episode include:
We're like a tennis ball at Wimbledon, changing topics left and right. Don't forget to visit our new Facebook page and "Like" us. Email questions, comments, or show suggestions to DivorceSourceRadio@gmail.com, or phone them in to our listener line, at (248) 686-2256.
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Getting over divorce and the emotional feelings that go along with it isn't easy. In this episode of Sex after Divorce with Juliana Neiman, we take a look at emotional obstacles that might prevent us from moving forward into healthy sexual relationships.
Some may enter into a new relationship only to find themselves still harboring feelings of low self-esteem and fear that their new relationship will go the same path as their last one. By confronting our emotional issues up front and gaining a better understanding of ourselves, our fears and negative feelings fade away.
Juliana also addresses sexual emotions and fears that cause some people to feel insecure about becoming sexually involved with a new partner, and we discuss how to feel more comfortable with our own sexuality.
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On this episode of "Ask Henry" with family law attorney Henry Gornbein, a listener phones in a question regarding psychological evaluations. Henry answers the listener's question and goes on to provide a better understanding of what psychological evaluations are and how they work during a divorce from the legal perspective.
If you have a question you would like to answer on a future show, email your question to DivorceSourceRadio@gmail.com or phone your question into our Listener Line at (248) 686-2256.
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In this episode of The Intelligent Divorce with Mark Banschick, M.D., we discuss Trauma. Most of us has heard of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, a severe form of trauma. This is triggered by a severe event such a car accident, or the trauma of a battlefield.
We're going to discuss the most common form, Complex Trauma, and see how it can creep into our relationships. Complex trauma can occur as a result of domestic violence or from suffering a trauma at an early age and now in adulthood, issues trigger past trauma. So the question is, have you been traumatized and if so, is there treatment available?
Once you recognize your triggers you can begin the process of detoxifying the trauma. Dr. Banschick believes that traumas can be treated with much success and offers hope for a peaceful future.
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Stress not only affects our mental wellbeing, but our physical health as well. Our guest, Dr. Vivien Brown a family physician and Vice President for MEDISYS Health Group, Inc., in charge of Medical Affairs (http://www.medisys.ca/) explores the impact of stress on the body and how you can actually prevent disease and illness – because “nothing makes you feel more fragile than getting sick.”
Dr. Brown shares with us the importance of preventative medicine and what you can do at a time when your body is most vulnerable. An award winner for teaching on many levels, Dr. Brown’s major interests are in the area of health promotion and prevention for women, and continuing medical education. She is particularly focused in the area of Adult Immunization and Vaccine Preventable Illness.
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On this episode of Single Again! Now What?, Joanie, Lesley and Steve discuss internet dating. The trio talk about their experiences and thoughts about this popular dating trend for the single again crowd.
Is dating after divorce different for men than women? How do you go from meeting on a dating site to meeting in person? Is face-to-face Skyping a better way to find a love interest? We cover it all and much more. We also touch on the topic of loneliness after divorce, and, as usual, we do it with plenty of laughs. We also give a shout out to our friends listening in Singapore. (We love Singapore!)
The program includes a visit from Cindy Sample, author of Dying for a Date and the sequel, Dying for a Dance. Her books are receiving rave reviews. Author Linda Lovely raves: "In Cindy Sample's newest humor-packed mystery, the author packages her whodunit puzzle in the glittering wrapper of ballroom dance competition. With pacing as energetic as a mambo, Dying for a Dance will have readers turning pages to see if the feisty single mom can calm a Bridezilla gal pal, squeeze in lip locks with a hunky detective, save her bank and her job, and figure out who is murdering dance instructors. Laughs abound along with ample thrills. When this dance ends, you'll applaud."
Be sure to "like" us on our new Facebook page at www.Facebook.com/SingleAgainNowWhat and feel free to write the show at DivorceSourceRadio@gmail.com.
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Many people fee victimized after going through divorce and victimization is counterproductive in moving forward with our new life. When people feel victimized, their focus is centered on themselves and their personal energy becomes very low and destructive.
Karen teaches us how to shift out of victim mentality by addressing the following topics:
Ultimately, we all want to live in peace and joy. We need to get past conflict, into forgiveness and then to compassion. Once we reach that place, we can live in peace and move towards a more joyful life with less negative energy in our lives.
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In this episode of Sex after Divorce with Juliana Neiman, our topic is Better Sexual Communications and How Sexuality Changes with Age.
In most cases of divorce, there had been a breakdown in how partners communicate their sexual needs leaving them frustrated and unfulfilled. This program helps us understand how sexuality changes with age. Communicating your sexual needs to your new partner is a way to reignite your sexuality regardless of your age.
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Also discussed in the program are three books recommended by Juliana which are available from our Recommended Reading tab. The books are: Secrets of the Sexually Satisfied Woman: Ten Keys to Unlocking Ultimate Pleasure by Dr. Laura Berman, From Age-ing to Sage-ing: A Profound New Vision of Growing Older by Zalman Schachter-Shalomi and Sensual Sex: Awakening Your Senses and Deepening the Passion in Your Relationship by Beverly Engle.
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Have you ever stopped to think why the divorce rate rises with each subsequent marriage, or why seemingly great relationships don’t work?
In this episode of The Smart Divorce with Deborah Moskovitch, Deborah and Steve Peck discuss relationships – what’s great and what isn’t. All too often people fall into the same relationship patterns – they get involved with the same “type” that didn’t work for them previously like physical appearance or character traits.
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An interesting and informative show filled with insight and candor. Deborah speaks to the article she wrote Midlife Divorce: Blame it on Your Parents? http://www.more.ca/relationships/single-life/midlife-divorce-blame-it-on-your-parents/a/33856
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Getting your child into a set routine is a great way to balance their life. Good sleeping, eating, and study habits are critical to your child's wellbeing, and Dr. Banschick provides an example of what this looks like.
We also identify common learning disabilities and provide options for treatment, including prescribed medication. 5% of children in school today are dealing with ADHD. If you suspect that your child may be exhibiting signs of ADD, ADHD, or a learning disability, know that you're not alone--evaluation and help are available. Be proactive in getting help for your child.
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As simple as this sounds, "tapping" different parts of your body has produced remarkable clinical results of stress reduction and is used by many Major League athletes, as well as business professionals. Divorce is one of the most stressful situations we face in life, so the potential benefits from EFT could help thousands of our listeners.
In this episode of Divorce Source Radio with Steve Peck, Brad Yates, an expert in EFT, joins us and explains how we might benefit from tapping. Brad has had the privilege and pleasure of working with a diverse group of clients, from CEOs to professional and NCAA athletes, from chiropractors and psychiatrists to corporate and federal attorneys, from award-winning actors to residents at a program for homeless men and women in Santa Monica. Brad is the author of the best-selling children's book, "The Wizard's Wish," the co-author of the best-seller, "Freedom at Your Fingertips," a featured expert in the film, “The Tapping Solution” (along with Jack Canfield, Bob Proctor, Dr. Norman Shealy and Dr. Bruce Lipton,) and has been heard internationally on a number of internet radio talk shows.
Tapping is not just for adults. Our children can benefit from EFT, as well. For more information on Brad Yates, visit his website at www.BradYates.net. So, what are you waiting for? Let's get tapping!
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The Emotionally Abused Male: Does your relationship with your girlfriend or wife leave you feeling bad about yourself? Do you frequently feel misunderstood, rejected, vilified and devalued in your relationship? Do you feel trapped or stuck? Do you believe it’s possible for men to be emotionally abused by women? Believe it. It happens all the time. The stereotype of an abusive relationship is that of a man physically beating a woman. Society has yet to acknowledge the vast number of women who emotionally abuse men. In fact, the men who are being abused oftentimes don’t realize that their wife’s or girlfriend’s behavior is abusive. A listener phones in his question to Dr. Friedberg.
Parental Alienation: A listener writes Dr. Friedberg regarding her ex's attempt to alienate their children from her. She is without money or resources and is looking for guidance on how to deal with this situation.
Dealing with an Incarcerated Ex: Divorce is never easy. Imagine trying to raise your children on your own, with no help from your ex, because he is in prison for molesting your young daughter's girlfriend. Dr. Friedberg answers a difficult listener question.
If you would like to ask Dr. Friedberg a question, write us at: DivorceSourceRadio@gmail.com or phone your question into our Listener Line at (248) 686-2256. For more on Dr. Larry Friedberg, visit: www.DrLarryFriedberg.com.
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It's time for another fun and insightful program on Single Again! Now What? with Joanie Winberg, Lesley Hatfield, and Steve Peck!
In this episode, we discuss the adage, Opposites Attract. However, in many such relationships, after the attraction, the opposite personalities can seem to attack. Why do we tend to be attracted to others who are so different than us? Do they fill the void of qualities we wish we had? Even more interesting is how what we were once attracted to can later repel us.
Single Again! Now What? now has its own Facebook Fan Page. Come join our community, and share your thoughts and suggestions with us. We'd love to hear from you! Click here, and "Like" our page, and join our community. We look forward to chatting with you soon!
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In this episode of Single Again! Now What?, Joanie, Lesley and Steve discuss Dating after Divorce, is it easier for men or women?
Some think it's easier for women because men flock to them, and women have the opportunity to say yes or no. Lesley talks about the discomfort of being single and alone at a restaurant or bar when guys feel that because she is alone, they have the right to approach her.
Steve doesn't see anything wrong approaching a single woman at the bar if she is not wearing a ring as long as it's done tastefully, and Joanie helps us understand why we do what we do. What would we do without Joanie?
Come along for the fun as we learn, laugh, love and give a "shout out" to Singapore on Single Again! Now What? Episode #6
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Did you know that PTSD – Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, affects more than just service members in the military? PTSD results from exposure to a traumatic event, such as divorce – which could impact on how children’s lives unfold.
Dr. Robert J. Cipriano Jr. (www.simcipgroup.com), a preeminent Licensed Psychologist in Florida who specializes in police psychology and works for one of the largest police departments in the Southeastern part of the United States, shares his knowledge, experience and expertise on this manageable and treatable disorder.
Dr. Cipriano draws on his years of field experience to explain how trauma and violence can impact an individual’s psychological wellbeing; specifically recognizing signs and symptoms of the disorder, how it manifests, and how to work and interact with those who may suffer from it.
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Join Deborah and Steve on the journey to understand this disorder. Could you or a loved one have experienced PTSD as a result of a high conflict divorce or a traumatic event in your past? Listen and learn, as Dr. Cipriano so wisely comments – “Education is empowerment, and empowerment can overcome fear, hopelessness and helplessness”.
Dr. Cipriano can be reached at info@SIMCIPGROUP.COM
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In this episode of DSR with Steve Peck, our topic is Parental Kidnapping, and our guest is Maureen Dabbagh, a Virginia Supreme Court Family Mediator specializing in cross-border child custody disputes.
Maureen has experienced Parental Kidnapping firsthand. Her three-year-old daughter was abducted from the United States and taken to the Middle East by her Syrian ex-husband. Maureen and her daughter had no communication for 17 years.
The reality of family abduction is that it is a form of child endangerment. Children abducted by family members are often forced into the nomadic, unstable lifestyle of a fugitive: They are taught to hide their real identities under a false name and to avoid and distrust law enforcement and authority figures.
Maureen is the author of "Parental Kidnapping in America: An Historical & Cultural Analysis." Through her books, practice, and public appearances, she hopes to educate those experiencing or fearing a family abduction. You can learn more about Maureen Dabbagh on her Facebook page at: http://www.facebook.com/maureen.dabbagh.
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In this episode of The Smart Divorce with Deborah Moskovitch, we discuss The Ten Signs that Your Spouse May be Planning to Divorce You.
Many times, especially in long-term relationships, spouses drift apart. They may not be having sex much, if at all, and their intimate conversations and sharing of day-to-day life experiences may cease to exist.
You would think that these signs, alone, would be enough to cause partners to wonder if their relationship was in trouble. It seems, however, that this pattern of distancing themselves was a slow, eroding process, and for some, they feel it was the normal progression of a long-term relationship.
If you and your partner have lost the connection that you once shared, it's possible that your partner has considered, or could even be planning, a divorce, without your having any knowledge of it. Deborah reveals the signs that your spouse might be seeking a divorce, as originally mentioned in The Globe and Mail article, by Tralee Pearce.
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Start the New Year right with our NEW, UPLIFTING SHOW on Divorce Source Radio, Single Again! Now What? with Joanie Winberg and Lesley Hatfield.
Divorce can be so serious and bring you down. This show is all about life after divorce and bringing you around. Our divorced and single hosts deliver a show you can relate to, because we're all in the same place... single and divorced.
Together, we hope to learn, love, and laugh our way through this show and the rest of our lives. We invite you to come along for the ride. Feel free to write us with comments, questions, or suggestions to DivorceSourceRadio@gmail.com.
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On this episode of The Intelligent Divorce, Dr. Banschick and Steve Peck speak with Dr. Andrew Klafter, director of psychotherapy training at the University of Cincinnati Residency Training Program.
Dr. Klafter has dedicated much of his research to learning more about Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Narcissistic personality disorder is a condition in which people have an inflated sense of self-importance and an extreme preoccupation with themselves.
Before someone might be classified as being narcissistic, it is important to keep in mind that, like every psychological disorder, narcissistic personality disorder too comes in various degrees. Going to the extreme, we might argue that each of us has somewhere a narcissist in her/himself. It even could be said that a narcissistic tendency is important for survival.
However, in the same context it must be emphasized that, while a narcissistic tendency is constructive, a fully elaborated or developed symptomatic of NPD is nothing but destructive. So how do you know if your spouse or even you is a narcissist and what can you do if this is the case?
In this program, we identify what a NPD is and discuss living with and divorcing a narcissist. This is not an easy situation to deal with and turns many divorces into a "high conflict" situation requiring special attention. Dr. Klafter believes a true narcissist can be turned around through therapy and go on to have fulfilling relationships as long as they understand that they have a problem.
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In this episode of Sex after Divorce with Juliana Neiman, we discuss the importance of understanding your sexual needs and communicating them to your new partner.
Poor communication skills among couples is one of the main reasons many marriages fail. Although there are many important topics to communicate about in a relationship, discussing your sexual preferences early on in a new relationship can lead to a healthier and more intimate relationship.
Juliana Neiman has a wonderful way of helping us better understand our sexuality, and you may even want to listen to this program with your new partner. It is our hope that this program leads you to a better understanding of what each other's sexual needs are, and ultimately to greater intimacy.
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In this episode of The Intelligent Divorce, Mark Banschick, M.D. takes a look at divorce and family adversity in the movies.
Dr. Banschick believes there are powerful messages in movies that relate to divorce and single parenting that provide wisdom and insight to what might be going on in our lives.
Many children's movies have situations with divorced parents, the death of a parent, or being raised by extended family . Going to one of these well-done movies with your children provides a great opportunity for dialog afterwards and can be a great way of helping your children better understand divorce. Dr. Banschick tells the tale of The Wizard of Oz like you have never heard it before and provides other examples from ET and The Lion King.
For more movie recommendations for your children as well as yourself, pick up a copy of Dr. Banschick's Intelligent Divorce book, "Because Your Kids Come First," available in the Recommended Reading section of www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.
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In this episode of Divorce Source Radio with Steve Peck, we speak with the author of the book, Fishing by Moonlight - The Art of Enhancing Intimate Relationship, Colene Sawyer, Ph.D..
A licensed marriage and family therapist, Dr. Sawyer has worked for nearly three decades in private practice with parents, children, and singles, as a divorce counselor, and with couples and families.
This is a program for anyone going through divorce who's looking for a better understanding of their past relationship choices in an effort to construct healthier relationships in the future.
Dr. Sawyer explains that a new love affair can set off a "feel good" chemical similar to an amphetamine reaction in our brain. This is responsible for the euphoria of passionate infatuation that guides us into believing we have found Mr. or Ms. Right. Unfortunately, we don't always make the smart choices during this state, and like all drug-induced states, the feeling dissipates in time. This program helps us gain a better understanding for how relationships work.
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To receive a free E-copy of Fishing by Moonlight, visit www.FishingByMoonlight.com
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In this episode of Divorce Source Radio with Steve Peck, we talk with the founders of Divorce Detox.
Divorce Detox™ provides symptom relief and relationship closure, while addressing the underlying pain and heartache of divorce, to insure long lasting divorce recovery.
Allison Pescosolido, M.A. and Andra Brosh, Ph.D. are experts in Divorce Recovery and starting over. They co-founded Divorce Detox, a full service center to transform the lives of individuals transitioning through divorce. With advanced degrees in the field of Psychology, and as certified Grief Recovery Specialists by The Grief Recovery Institute, Andra and Allison are pro-actively challenging and changing the stigma of divorce on a national level. These dynamic women are dedicated to utilizing divorce as an opportunity for personal growth and a new life. The Divorce Detox™ proprietary programs transcend more traditional forms of treatment for divorce by providing the necessary tools, support and guidance for efficient, long lasting results.
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In the final episode of our ten-part series of Sex after Divorce - Reconnecting with Our Sexual Selves, Juliana Neiman talks about creating your own personal retreat at home as a means of self discovery and growth.
Not everyone can afford or needs to go away to a personal retreat to work through their issues after divorce. Juliana shows us how to get the most out of being alone at home and spending time reflecting on what has and hasn't served us in past and offers insight into making healthy choices that will lead to fulfilling future relationships.
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If you would like to ask Henry a question for an upcoming show, email us at DivorceSourceRaadio@gmail.com of phone your question in to our Voicemail Listener Line at (248) 686-2256.
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In this episode of The Intelligent Divorce with Mark Banschick, M.D., our topic is Getting Your Kids to Sleep. This can be a challenging task with many children but during a divorce, the challenge can be even greater.
Our guest is Maureen Healy, founder of Growing Happy Kids, a worldwide organization focused upon fostering happiness in children. She was named a “Creative Activist” by Creative Visions Foundation and authored a “Peace Curriculum” for preschoolers, which is distributed worldwide by The Simha Foundation.
Healy is not new to making a positive impact on children around the world. In 2007, she created a program for Tibetan refugee children in Asia and built child-centered programs around the United States.
Maureen helps parents understand what keeps children up and provides examples of what we can do to provide a better sleep environment that encourages rest and sleep. If you are experiencing problems getting your kids to sleep, this is the program for you!
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In the seventh episode of Sex after Divorce with Juliana Neiman, our journey of the "sexual menu" continues as we discuss the taboo of anal sex and sexual fantasies.
Sex therapist Juliana Neiman provides a quick review of what we have learned since our first episode. The information and advice provided in this series will help you to learn from mistakes made in past relationships, with the goal of entering into a healthier relationship in the future.
After divorce, it's quite normal for some individuals to lose their desire for a new sexual relationship, and you may even experience a fear of becoming sexually involved with someone new, due to your damaged sexual self esteem. Juliana helps you understand how to address these feelings and move forward.
The program then addresses the taboo topic of anal sex and the creation of sexual fantasies with your partner as a way of broadening your sexual menu. Juliana helps us remove the sexual roadblocks that may have negatively affected our sexual relationship with our ex and provides insight on how we might open our minds and communicate our needs in healthier ways for future relationships.
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In this episode of "Ask Henry," attorney Henry Gornbein, answers the questions: Should I move out of our home or stay? and When is The Right Time to Introduce a New Flame to Your Children.
It used to be that keeping a marital home was the best thing to do for the sake of your children and finances, and this property was routinely a bargaining tool when dividing assets. Today, with the downfall of the economy, many homeowners are "underwater," meaning the owners owe more than the house is worth. Henry helps us make sense of when staying is the proper thing to do, and when it's best to cut our losses and move on.
The second part of this program is dedicated to when to tell your children that you have a new love interest. This decision is sometime rushed and not in the best interest of the children. This is a subject that should be handled with care, and Henry provides his advice on what he feels is in the best interest of the entire family.
If you would like to ask Henry Gornbein a question to be answered on an upcoming show, email: DivorceSourceRadio@gmail.com, or phone your question in to our listener line, at (248) 686-2256. Your question will be answered on a future program.
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At some point after divorce, mom will start to feel sexual again. That’s a good sign. It means she’s healing and on her way to wholeness. Unfortunately, because there’s so much sexual shaming and mixed messages in our society about sex and divorced moms, divorced moms will often distort their sexuality (meaning inappropriate and risky sex), or limit themselves to unloving relationships or shut down their sexual sides all together. This doesn’t serve anybody. We are meant to be whole, and sex is a part of that wholeness. Divorced, not dead.
There’s a better way. In this program, Divorce Coach, Jeanie Rule explains that when a mother can understand, embrace and integrate her unique sexual self into her divorced-mom life, then she’s able to tap into the special sparks that good sexuality brings to all of us – better health, emotional well-being, creativity, connection to others, confidence, vitality.
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It's the question you might be asking yourself right now, should I get a divorce?, and it's a question worth asking.
In this episode of The Intelligent Divorce with Dr. Mark Banschick, M.D., Dr. Banschick helps us understand the process of evaluating these life changing questions and helps us take a look at our values.
Many divorced people have said if they would have known how hard divorce was going to be, that they would have reconsidered getting a divorce and worked harder on saving their marriage.
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In this episode of The Intelligent Divorce with Dr. Mark Banschick, M.D., we look at a less confrontational form of divorce that is gaining in popularity, Collaborative Law.
Our guest is Attorney Rita Pollak, an expert in the field of collaborative law. Rita has helped designed training programs for other professionals with a desire to provide a peaceful alternative to the traditional divorce and mediation, and promotes www.CollaborativePractice.com for individuals looking for more information on Collaborative Law.
DIVORCE CAN BE MORE PEACEFUL. "Anyone entering the divorce process owes it to themselves and family to look into seeking a collaborative attorney". - Steve Peck
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Episode #4 of Sex after Divorce with Juliana Neiman helps us to reflect on our past emotional and sexual relationship(s) so that we can discover what role we may have played in the demise of our relationship.
Juliana helps us understand our past with acceptance and shows how to move to a place of forgiveness. And once we've reached a new place of calm and understanding, we can then move on to future healthy relationships.
Is there a proper time to get back into the dating world? How should you approach future relationships sexually and how to better communicate your needs to your partner as discussed as well.
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The dissolution of a marriage is a major life transition that entails having to make some of the toughest decisions of your life at a time when you are least able to.
Not knowing what to do -- and not being able to learn or take in information about these areas of your life that could potentially impact you and your kids for years to come -- means that you have to depend on others for help.
Finding the right professionals early on may be easier said than done, but all you need is one professional you like and trust to get started. You can then ask her for assistance in getting the other team members together. If you're lucky, a divorce network will already exist in your area.
In this episode of Beyond Divorce, Susan Pease Gadoua provides answers to commonly asked questions from people going through divorce. These answers are provided by the Divorce Dream Team, a group who has come together to provide "one-stop-shopping" resources for women going through divorce.
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In the second episode of Sex after Divorce - Reconnecting with our Sexual Selves, sex therapist, Juliana Neiman, explains how our "sexual script" may have played a role in past unhealthy sexual relationships.
In this program, you'll learn how what you were told, taught or experienced early on in your life defined your "sexual script," or, said another way, your feelings toward sex.
Were you raised to think of sex as something you don't talk about, or something that is natural and healthy? Did your parents discuss sex with you, or were they the type to not mention it at all? Did religion play a role in making you feel sex was wrong? Was your first sexual experience a good or bad one?
All these situations early in life define our sexual scripts, and sometimes, these beliefs and feelings are quite negative and prevent us from living a healthy sexual life.
In this ten-part series, Juliana will talk about sex and help us understand our sexuality in the context of dealing with the emotional turmoil and aftermath of divorce. Her insights will help us to understand how we can change and improve our sexual lives for healthier relationships.
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Thousands of kids experience the stress of divorce each year. How they'll react depends on their age, personality, and the particular circumstances of the separation and divorce process.
Every divorce will have an effect on the kids involved — and many times the initial reaction is one of shock, sadness, frustration, anger, or worry. But kids can also come out of it better able to cope with stress, and many become more flexible, tolerant young adults.
In this episode of The Intelligent Divorce with Dr. Mark Banschick, M.D., we'll discuss signs to look for that may indicate your kids are having a problem. Dr. Banschick breaks down each age group from very young children through their twenties.
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In this series, Juliana will talk about sex and help us understand our sexuality in the context of dealing with the emotional turmoil and aftermath of their divorce and help us to understand how we can change and improve our sexual life with the next partner?
We'll start at the beginning: what is the beginning? For us to understand what is happening with our sexuality- what happened while we were married- and what insights we want to gain- and thus make some changes if we realize we have to in order to enjoy a more satisfying fulfilling sexual life- for ourselves and with our new partners whenever that happens.
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Thousands of kids experience the stress of divorce each year. How they'll react depends on their age, personality, and the particular circumstances of the separation and divorce process.
Every divorce will have an effect on the kids involved — and many times the initial reaction is one of shock, sadness, frustration, anger, or worry. But kids can also come out of it better able to cope with stress, and many become more flexible, tolerant young adults.
In this episode of The Intelligent Divorce Radio Program, Dr. Mark Banschick MD helps us recognize if your kid are in trouble and what to do to set it right. You will learn how to parent constructively with your ex spouse or how to raise a healthy child alone. You'll be able to chart your kids progress and feel reassured that things are going to be okay. You don't want your child to be a statistic.
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This episode of Beyond Divorce with Susan Pease Gadoua, Discusses the challenge and rewards of co-parenting post divorce.
How co-parenting goes post divorce depends to a large degree on how it was during the marriage: if it was difficult, it may be more difficult post divorce, and if it was good, it may be better. Often, the parenting dynamics are exaggerated so, even though the amount of contact with your ex is less, the intensity of the contact may be greater.
Challenges to overcome include being fearful that the other parent has less regard for the health and safety or your child, disapproving or your ex's parenting style, feeling a sense of competition with your ex and using your children as pawns.
In divorce, there are often feelings of anger, sadness and hurt - co-parenting is no exception. It's important to get adequate emotional support as well as co-parenting education. Learning effective communication styles can be crucial in having a better working experience.
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In episode #2 of Beyond Divorce with Susan Pease Gadoua, we discuss finding a "New Normal" after your divorce.
Settling in with a "New Normal" post divorce can seem impossible but it will eventually happen for those who put the effort into making it happen. The impact of divorce on your life is like throwing a large rock into a pond: there are lots of ripples and it takes a while for things to settle down again.
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In this Best of DSR episode of "Ask Henry", attorney Henry Gornbein, answers the question, "Do I have to pay spousal support?" (Also known as alimony) He also answers the follow-up question, "What's the difference between modifiable and non-modifiable spousal support?"
If you are a woman what could prohibit you from receiving spousal support of even have to pay it to your ex.
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From the "Best of DSR" series comes Co-Parenting Peacefully for Your Children. This has been one of the most listened to programs on DSR.
If you’ve decided to separate or get a divorce and have children, your next important decision should be about co-parenting. Divorce may be the end of a marriage, but it is not the end of the family. People who separate but continue to work cooperatively as parents give their children the best chances for a smooth adjustment to living in two separate households and continued growth.
Psychologist, Dr. Larry Friedberg shows us ways to communicate with your ex without hostility for the good of your children.
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As a specialist in family law for over 40 years, Henry Gornbein strongly believes that a divorce should be the last resort, not the first resort, and that too many people file for divorce, often for the wrong reasons. The Parental Divorce Reduction Act's purpose is to reduce unnecessary divorce, decrease parental conflict and litigation surrounding a divorce, and educate parents regarding the impact of divorce on families.
As a practitioner with extensive experience over many years specializing in family law, Henry has concerns, because many marriages have an imbalance of power between the parties. Often, one spouse is very controlling, and the other spouse feels powerless While Henry believes there is a lot that is good in the proposed legislation to reform marriage and save as many marriages as possible he discusses his concerns and reservations in this episode.
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Originally broadcast on October 8, 2009, Surviving Divorce with Dr. Larry Friedberg explores the five stages of anger and grief as it relates to a divorce. The five stages of divorce are: Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression/Pain, Acceptance/Recovery.
It’s harder to get over a divorce than the death of a loved one. Learn ways to cope with your hurt, anger and pain and discover how to come out the other side of divorce a healthy and happy person.
This is a “Must Hear” program for anyone experiencing the emotional pain of divorce. For more information, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.
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Our guest, Emily Brown, is Director of Key Bridge Therapy & Mediation Center in Arlington, VA. (http://www.affairs-help.com/) works with couples, individuals, and families regarding the underlying issues in marriage, divorce, and betrayal. Battles over custody and related issues that are fueled by a personality disordered spouse can be the most frustrating of all wars. The judges regularly get conned by the personality disordered spouse who makes nice in front of the judge; the other spouse who is angry and upset appears to be the problem. Emily has worked with a number of these cases, trying to extricate the victimized spouse – and overcoming the frustration which many experience. Tough cases, but she likes the challenge.
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The Intelligent Divorce lays out a blueprint that can teach you how to handle your divorce with grace, strength and wisdom. Based on hundreds of case studies and a decades of experience, it is designed with the health of your children in mind.
Our guest is the author of The Intelligent Divorce, Dr Mark R. Banschick, a diplomat of the American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology with over 20 years of experience in child and adolescent psychiatry.
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Divorce is a stressful and unsettling situation. Over 50% of first marriages end in divorce, and the number increases to 67% for second marriages.
Renowned psychologist, Dr. Larry Friedberg, is interviewed and we learn: How Communication Breaks Down in Relationships, How to Work Through your Divorce with Less Stress, How to Protect Your Children from Personal Arguments With Your Spouse and we discuss Controlling Personalities.
This program has been the most downloaded program on Divorce Source Radio since first airing in July of 2009 and is helping tens of thousands of individual get over their divorce and move on with their lives. This is a "Must Hear" program for anyone going through a divorce.
For more information on Dr. Larry Friedberg, visit www.DrLarryFriedberg.com. For more programs and information on our show, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com or email us at DivorceSourceRadio@gmail.com
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Mark from Chicago
Why do they have marital status on job application forms and do you have to check divorced if you are?
Sean from San Antonio
I've heard you should keep your divorce decree and that you may be asked for them to purchase a new car, home, life insurance issues and more. Is this true?
Jennifer from San Francisco
Can I change my mind about divorcing my spouse after I filed papers?
Laura from Jew Jersey
Can I change my restore my maiden name as part of or after the divorce the divorce?
Robert from Indianapolis
You did a show on The Divorce Than Never Ends. How do we keep ourselves mentally healthy during this process? What specific advice can you provide on how not to let the constant attacks affect us as much?
Tom from Detroit
I'm a laid off auto worker and haven't worked for over a year. My ex and I were married eighteen years and we don't have any kids. It's not like I haven't been looking for a job, I have. Now my wife is taking me to court for spousal support I owe her according to the judge's orders. My question is, how can I be expected to pay what I don't have?
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Family Law Attorney Henry Gornbein answers a listener's phone-in question regarding his wife setting him up to meet with her when a PPO (Personal Protection Order) was in place and then turning him in for violating the PPO. The caller is now facing jail time because of what he believes was a set-up.
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